Firstly I would just like to take the time to thank all you kind people who answered my blog. There are so many kind people out there. We have had wonderful news that my husband Bob's scan results came back clear he was so frightened and all of us, his family, were also. It was great news after all the worrying again and wanting to scream and scream. Anyway we all felt on top of the world for a day and now, bang, he has become so unwell just 24hrs later and has been admitted to hospital
and they have said they will know more in the morning. We stayed with him until midnight and then they said we must go, didn't want to leave him. He looked so relieved when they told him the scan results and now he looks so unwell again. Wish I could swap places with him and take away his sadness and pain. Hopefully he will be feeling a little better when we go back up there this morning. I feel as though I go one step forward and then two or three back, which I am sure many of you feel like.
Anyway once again thank you, thank you for being here and hopefully I can be here for some of you.
Take care all of you,
Duchess.
FormerMember
Hi Duchess
Again just to say like the others. We are all here for one another and we as carers all need one anothers support. So pleased the scan results we so good.
Duchess, please try to keep up your fighting spirit. It is so hard to do though especially when you see your beloved looking so desperately unwell. I hope that the news is more favourable this morning. It is not an easy situation you find yourself in. I am here for you any time you want to talk or offload. Love and hugs to you both x x x Love Patricia
Just read your post and had to say how sorry i was. I must admit to feeling an empathy with you. When i had to tell my wife and sons that i had cancer, It was like hitting them with a poleaxe but i would still prefer that i had the disease than them. I’m not sure i would have the strength to be a carer like yourself.
Keep smiling where you can and if you need to talk then you can always get me by email.
Just want to say I am thinking of you, too. Such a shame after the goods news you had that your husband is now poorly. Fingers crossed it is something which the hospital can sort out pretty quickly.
