No relaxing today

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I'd been hoping for a relaxing Sunday but it soon became clear that there was little chance of that.  First H needed his hair cut.  Then I thought I had better tackle my fringe.  Next was the laundry and bed linen changing.  This also involved H having a "using the washing machine" lesson, followed by tuition on "how to put a duvet cover on".

We then did all the housework and shopping.  I'm having my feeding tube fitted at the hospital tomorrow, so I probably won't be feeling up to doing too much for a few days.  I might be stopping there overnight so I had to get a bag packed in case.  

In between all this I have to eat 6 small meals a day, drink 2 Fortisip protein shakes, have 3 salt water rinses, do extra teeth cleaning and make sure I stay well hydrated.  Since I went to the hospital on Friday I also have to do my jaw and swallowing exercises 3 times a day.  Plus I'm supposed to be trying to carry on using my exercise bike daily and doing my online aerobics or yoga classes.  

I came back from the hospital last time with a carrier bag full of leaflets and booklets.  Some have very important instructions in, some are just generally useful.  I decided that I needed to set some time aside today to properly sort it all out.  So I now have a box file with the non urgent stuff in, and a plastic wallet with ongoing crucial things.  All loose paperwork is now filed in plastic folders with a title label on the front.  Looks very impressive but it took two hours.  

When I have my jaw reconstruction operation I may have to stay in hospital for 3 weeks.  We have decided that H needs to check my emails for me as I do most of our household finance and admin online, and there may be urgent things he needs to deal with.  So I spent some time cancelling as many unnecessary email subscriptions as possible so that there aren't too many emails in the inbox each day.  I thought I'd finally be getting some relaxation time this evening, but H has just said he needs a refresher on how to log into our online bank account.  

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