Debs Daily Deliberations 159

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Monday after the sad news I received over the weekend today brought a huge surprise. One of my work colleagues gave birth at home to a beautiful 7lb baby girl called Emily. Nothing particularly unusual about that, she woke with backache and pretty much had the baby before her husband woke up.....so whats unusual? she didn't know she was pregnant!!! I still find it hard to believe but as I saw her two weeks ago myself, she certainly didn't look pregnant at all, gained a bit of weight (but who hasn't). Her daughter and son are so excited and her husband looks like the cat that got the cream. They were taken to hospital by ambulance to be checked over. Mum and daughter doing fine. As one friend becomes a star in the sky, another star is born.....the circle of life (and thats particularly apt as Stuart works as an electrician on the Lion King production in London). The family are the talk of the town at the moment!

Got all the kids off to school complete with PE kits, lunch and brains (see blog 157) and it was lovely and quiet in the house. I was washed and dressed and ready for my daily walk to Tesco's but couldn't find my mobile (Tony would go ballastic if I left the house without it, its his form of electronic tagging) so I grab the home phone and ring it.....I walked from the kitchen to lounge following the sound only to find it in the front pocket on my hoody that I am wearing!!! I had checked my trouser pockets before I tried calling myself but not my top - I am now convinced that hoodies really are the root of all evil. Came home from Tesco's and did some washing and washing up. Spent a bit of time in the garden with the dogs (after clearing the poop trail - thanks Ollie!)and weeded my new grassy border - bloomin weeds grow faster than my plants!!!!! Had lunch of a tuna & mayo in a granary bap and a cup of tea whilst watching some Aussie soaps (sad I know but hey, what else am I to do lol). Then get a phonecall from a friend who is job hunting, she currently works in a different pre-school to where I worked, but she has had her fill of snotty noses and pooey bums. She came round last week with the local paper and we went through the job section and weeded out a few she'd like to apply for - bless her she is completely dizzy but a very loyal friend and dependable in a crisis. Today she is moaning she hasn't heard from a few and I go online and print off the internet available ones as she doesn't have a printer.....I will be submitting my bill for being a personal careers advisor when she gets a new job LOL

By this time the kids are home from school and I won't go as far as to say we have a conversation about school, because the boys are not exactly forthcoming...."alright" is their box standard answer to most things! Lara on the other hand is quite happy to recount her entire day!!!!!Tony is working late (yes there is still overtime thank goodness) so the first sitting of Cafe Perry is for breaded cod, veggies and curly fries for the kids. Around 7pm Tony comes home and we sit down to a classic chicken caesar salad, romaine lettuce, anchovies (you won't believe how long it took my brain to access that word, all I could think of was artichokes!)parmesan flakes and croutons.....I added finely diced crispy pan-friend pancetta pieces - very nice they were too!

Spent the rest of the evening snuggled up next to hubby on the sofa watching tv and ashamedly eating Giant Chocolate Buttons - I am not a choccy/sweet type person except around that time of the month.....which in view of the fact I am back at the oncologists to pick up my chemo on Friday, would lead me to believe I am about to go into pysco mum mode for a few days before Mother Nature pays a call - she really is a b*tch sometimes, to make it co-incide with four cycles of chemo....just plain mean!



Thought for the day:
... without darkness nothing comes to birth, as without light, nothing flowers.
Mary Antin

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My friends sister adopted 2 kids as it seemed they just couldn't have kids, no medical reason it just didn't happen. She was in the menopause (51) kids now mid teens when one Sunday morning she had a violent stomach ache, she put it down to food poisioning until this little baby plopped out on the bathroom floor.  I had seen her on the Friday and she didn't look pregnant.  So it was all hands to the deck to go through our cupboards for anthing we could pass on as she hadn't even a nappy pin .... yes many years ago we used terry nappies and pins.  They had to treat her and her husband for shock.    If that happened to me you'd be cutting me down from the big tree up the road ;-)

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    LOL Shez I soooooooo know what you mean there!!!!!  Apparently they still had most of the "big" items in their loft as James is only 6 and they wanted more but couldn't afford to......still there have been some cruel comments on FB about "how thick is she that she didnt know she was pregnant or feel the baby kick"......it happens quite a bit and I am just pleased that both she and her new darling daughter are well.

    Says me from up the tree ;)

    How was the tin villa???

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Aww Debs what a lovely surprise about the baby. Take no notice of the comments on facebook.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    how lovely,a new baby always brings a smile to peoples faces,more so a surprise one xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    blooming eck ....... im off to chemist 2morro for a pegnancy testing kit...ive put a bit of weight on and its been months !!!! i just thought it was my age!

    lol

    xNx