A little note from Debs

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FormerMember

1 Dec 2009

Just to save people wondering and worrying I thought I'd leave a note. I was quite poorly over the weekend with very very bad constipation. When I wasn't in bed sleeping, I was curled up on the sofa moaning and whimpering!

I did log on to the site and low and behold, another little storm in a teacup was brewing.

This was the final straw for me, I have supported this site and the people on it because it helped ME feel good about my own battle. I have made some amazing friends and met some truly inspirational people. But all these offensive comments and people being so quick to jump in for a "cyber punch up" has put me off.

I've decided to take a break, hopefully I will miss the site and come back and once again amaze you all with the 'glamorous lifestyle of a brain tumour patient living on one wage' again.

I will pop back on from time to time to see whats happening with the friends I've made but life is just way too short for cyber drama.

Love & Strength

Debs xx

FormerMember over 15 years ago

Karen- if you click on the (green) site name of the person you want to add as a friend this will bring up a new page. Near the top is a 'add as a friend' tag. Click on this & your request will be sent.

Let me know if that doesn't make sense.

Jewels
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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Debs, I hope you will be back on this site very soon. I hate the thought that certain people have made you leave. I know exactly how you feel, because I felt the same only a few weeks ago. I find all the bully like comments extremely offensive, as if we haven't got enough to put up with. I hope that these people read all the comments and start to think before opening their mouths, but somehow I think it's wishful thinking. Hopefully we can keep in contact via Facebook. I know you will be sorely missed on this site.

Angela xxxx
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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Jewels - thanks. I've added you :D I tried to include a message but it page refreshed every time I typed in the box?!? Anyway thanks againx
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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Debs,

I hope you are feeling much better now. I'm so sorry to hear that you are taking a break from the site. I know that when you are feeling rough & want a bit of an uplift the last thing you want to read is a 'cyber punch-up'. Please don't let a small number of arguementative busy bodies get you down & leave the site - think of them as the nosy neighbours who you can walk past & ignore - they are just sad individuals who have nothing better to look forward to than complain about everything - Victor Meldrew style.

Look after yourself, enjoy your spare 'blog' time with your family & doing the Christmas shopping & then please return to your friends who look forward to reading your daily thoughts & admiring your beautiful photographic images. You bring joy to more people than you realise,

All my love & best wishes Angie xx
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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Hello Debs, I logged in to see how you and Drew are as no posts yesterday. So sorry your feeling rough pet. I don't know whats been happening but judging by the posts another nasty going on. Lifes too short as it is to be unkind to people, especially on this site. wishing you to be well. Linda x
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