Dad's Journey!

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Dad is now in hospital again for the third time. He was taken in as he'd had a fall and the Mac nurse was quite concerned about him. He was taken to a super palliative care unit which is part of our main Emergency hospital. The care he received there has been amazing. The physical surroundings were like a hotel and the staff were well informed and put us at our ease. However he has now been transferred to our local hospital and it is like going from the Hilton to a Travelodge! The standard of care is reasonable but not the same as the unit.  It is just so basic compared to the palliative care unit. He is understandable not a happy bunny. He thinks he is in for assessment purposes to see if he can go home but the docs have told us that he had agreed to go there as he knew himself he could not cope at home. This is such an emotionally draining time  as I hate to see him so unhappy but I also know that hospital is the best place for him. There is no local hospice available unfortunately or that might have been an option. 

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    Dad's Journey!

    Dad has now been in hospital for 3 and a half weeks altogether. He is getting weaker by the day and it is so painful to watch him slip away before my eyes. He can barely move himself to sit up in bed. He is beginning to experience more pain now but thankfully seems to be tolerating the morphine better than he did the last time. He's been fainting when he tries to stand up which they say is being caused by anxiety so they have put him on medazolam. It has made him very sleepy. He is so fed up now and just wants it all to end. It is so hard to see him suffer like this day after day.