Dads diagnosis

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Went to the hospital today to get results of dads CT scan. It wasn't good news, Dads cancer is terminal. He possibly has two years with radiotherapy. I am still shocked although it is secondary lymp node cancer I thought it would be treatable. I hope he gets some quality of life soon, since having his biopsy in October he's had an infection in the wound that won't go away even after a stay in hospital. The infection is really affecting his daily life as he mainly stays in bed. I want him to fight this!!! I fear if he carries on suffering he'll not make it to 2 years. Strange though after hearing the news today he perked up and even got his appetite back. Requesting fish and chips!! Scared of whats to come, don't want to cry too much now as I know there will be many more to come.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Really feel for you too, Catherine.

    We'll both have to really, really try to be strong.

    Love and caring,

    Tricia. X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dear Catherine - I remember how shocked, angry and frightened I felt when I got similar news about my stepdad. A lovely person on this site told me it was the start of the grieving process, which made a lot of sense and helped me a lot. Feel free to chat to me at any time - i'm not very good on the medical stuff, but i do know what it's like to have a dad with cancer. The funny thing is - mine requested fish and chips the other day as well!

    Keep strong - hope you have some good support around you. Love Val X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dear Catherine, I'm so sorry you've had such bad news. I hope the infection clears soon and your dad can have some quality of life again. Best Wishes to you all, Linda xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks for all your comments! Its good to know there's people who understand what i'm going through. I haven't told my friends yet because I don't want to make them feel awkward when they don't know what to say.  So thanks again I appreciate all the support xx