Dad died at home on Monday 15th November. He went quietly in his sleep - so like Dad 2 not make a fuss and try to make it easier for Mum!
We've made all the arrangements for the funeral next week and I went to see him today in the Chapel of Rest, he looked so peaceful.
I think it was such a release that he went now before the cancer started to show some really nasty effects. He had been feeling tired and began saying that it was all an effort but he only had some pain on the morning of the day he died.
Thanks to all those people I have spoken to on here that have offered kind words, an empathetic nod knowing just what we've been going through and for trying to help answer any questions I or Mum may have had.
I have a feeling I'm going to be on here more now than before to try and make sense of it all.
Bye for now, Ashley
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