Watching your daughter go through cancer treatment and not being able to have children

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Hi everyone My name is Jane. My daughter Claire who is 29was diagnosed with cervical cancer last July. Since then she has had IVF and frozen 7 eggs. She was staged at 1b2 a tumour of about 4cms. She had a radical hystorectomy because a lymph node was positive and has had chemo and radio which has left her with bad diahorrea. She was getting her life back and then they checked a PET scan to find another cancer in her thyroid. In January she had the thyroid removed and is now on thyroxin daily. Its been terrible to watch her go through all this especially because she lives in Australia and I just can't keep on going to see her. She is now in double remission so its good news. I just wondered if there were any other mothers who are in the same situation. Watching there children go through all this and knowing they can't have children. I seem to be surrounded by pregnant women and doting grandmothers and the pain is horrid. I would love to hear from you
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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    i am not going through the same as you but as a mother to children the same age i can only imgine how you feel & my heart goes out to you . this a terrible disease i lost my dad to lung cancer & last year was diagnosised breast cancer myself & had a bilateral mastectomy . this affected my own children plus my mum etc very badly . just wanted to send you some hugs & to say that there are people on here who understand your situation . i know what you mean about the world being full of pregnant woman when i had a miscarage years ago i experinced the same thing now to me the world seems to be full of women with perfect boobs .hope your daughter is feeling well & its fantastic that she is in double remission take care sending you lots of big hugs theresa xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi,

    I took B17 apricot kernals after reading pros and cons on the internet, while I was having my radio/chemo, I took 20 per day. At least with these they are not trying to rip you off as a large bag lasting over 3 months was only £12.00.

    I wouldn't take other expensive alternatives as I think these are a rip off!!!

    When I had my op for bowel cancer they said everything they removed was cancer free.

    I have just had another scan which showed 'NED'

    I am now on oral chemo for 6 months and wondering whether to take them again, you never know which has worked!!!

    Seanty will tell you it is cyanide (I think) poison and doesn't work, this is largely the reason I stopped taking them, however I am wondering whether I should start again on a maitenance dose which is only 7 a day. Surley this can't do any harm and would give me the B17 I am lacking without poisoning my system.

    I wouldn't want to encourage any one else to take it incase it does some harm, but for me I was ok.

    There is a long thread on topics here, about laterile and B17 which you might want to read which gives a balanced view.

    I am sure we will be getting Seanys comments soon!!!

    Jo x