had a good and bad day today been with my grandad who has the lung cancer took him to see his doctor although i love spending time with him and always stay cheerful when im with him when i come home i always end up crying for him because he seems to be getting so frail each time i see him i want him to know how special his been to me in my life but dont know how to tell him without upsetting him because i know he dosent want die and i know he hasnt got long left his such a fantastic man
FormerMember
Carla, just tell him you love him and give him a cuddle if he can tolerate being touched. We don't have to be dying to be told we are loved. You will probably please him. Do nice things together or just sit and chat if that is what he is happy with. Love to you and your grandad x x x
i do these things every day but i feel so useless and its not enough we spent the afternoon yesterday talking about things we used to do together its so very hard we used to do a lot of ballroom dancing together and in the space of 5 weeks he cant even walk without oxygen. i want to write him a special letter to tell him what he means to me do you think he would be ok with that or would it be to much i just dont want him to go without knowing how special he is i dont want to upset him though...........................god this is so hard thank you for your advice love carla x
