There is a Vibe in the Soup: Part III

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There’s a Vibe in my Soup III: 

The Meddlesome Wife is having a little problem knowing what to do with herself.  Having practically polished off everything in the fridge in a fest of guilt-free, fast and furious eating, she is twiddling her thumbs. There is no soup-stirring going on.  The house is still.  The dogs snore.  The rain, depressingly, falls ...

Where is our hero? 

Our hero has gone back to our ‘expert’ in the not-so-exotic South.  He is to have some tests that will measure the tumours so that they know what dose to administer of the magical drug that will allow the light fantastic to do its wonders. 

And the Meddlesome Wife has done all the stirring she can for the moment – both of the literal and metaphorical variety. 

There were swirling mists this time at the airport when she saw our hero off. There were also a few tears when she realized that she had no cash for the parking machine, and found she couldn’t drive her husband’s big car well enough to smoothly swipe the ticket to raise the barrier.  You can imagine the rude tootings from the cars behind when she had to un-belt, open the car door and make a lunge for the ticket machine. 

Hah! If they only knew!

However, she could console herself with the thought that the glugging, fizzing medicines sailed through security with no difficulty and that our hero was to be whisked through the crowds in a wheel chair when he reached his destination.

 (We had hoped we would be able to get one of the slightly more dignified, albeit annoying, whizzy buggy things, but not this time.)   

Our poor, brave hero.   

What was that?  Did I hear you say how terrible of the Meddlesome Wife to have sent our hero to big ‘expert’ in the South on his own? 

Never fear, his kind brother was waiting for him.

(Do you lot think we are made of money?  And have you forgotten the dogs?)

So Meddlesome Wife feels she has done all that she can.   

Now she has to wait.  

And she is hoping she had done the right thing.  

And wondering why she did not do this earlier. 

And there are dark, creeping fears which she is fighting down.

Keep the soup vibes coming so that we can prepare the pot for our hero's return. 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    what a wonderful blog -i just wanted to carry on reading -please keep posting - your writing skills are fantastic - looking forward to your next blog - love karen -xoxo-

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Meddlesome Wife!!!

    Best wishes to Hero on his visit to the not-so-exotic South. Here's hoping all that fizzing and bubbling works. Now that you've left your Hero in the capable hands of Brother-of-the-Hero, Never Fear - Take the time for yourself!!! Kick back and relax with a glass of wine, some dark chocolate, and a good movie - or a hot bath and a book - Put that soup "on the back burner", so to speak. It'll be time soon enough to stir it up again.

    And don't forget to Breathe.

    Sending you good calming vibes!!!

    Love & Hugs (hear that music swell!!!)

    Mo

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Fear not, Hero will be well looked after and taking part in the Wacky Races through the airport in a wheelchair will, I'm sure, distract him from any sneaky nervous feelings for at least a few minutes!

    In the mean time with a lack of soup to stir take a few moments for yourself and the dogs.

    Big hugs

    Bad Fairy x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Buzzie

    I hope the PM I sent you arrrived, I'm never too sure with this system.  It's so difficult when all you can do to support your hero is wait.  I guess the car park problems ring bells with so many of us carers.  Well done for at least finding the car.  Many times I have forgotten where I parked, then spent hours trying to find it, while the charges rachetted up.  I would recommend the chocolate and wine option: do try and make some time to recharge your batteries so you are on souper frorm when your hero returns to you.  To know that the treatment is being set up, must be such a huge relief to you both.  Buzzie, hold on to the knowledge that you have done everything in your power to get treatment for your Hero.  Much love and good vibes to you both

    Daffie

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thank you all.  Sending soup vibes.

    It is still tense round here but, I think, some good news.  Tired dogs and tired Meddlesome Wife.

    Lots of love, Grace.  xx

    Daffie - I think there were some problems with the site - no message from you and I lost one I was sending.  Please try again.  xx