What to do??

Hi Bubbles, sorry about the rating, was wondering about those stars and clicked on them without knowing how it worked and couldn't add or remove them after.  Still feeling my way around new site.

I'm sorry about your mother, it's been only 8 months and I don't think you can rush grief.  I hope you can be more gentle and patient with yourself.  You're pining for her and seeing that you're very close to her it is no wonder that you miss her so.  Please take all the time you need.  I don't think we can get over in a few months the loss of a person who has meant the world to us.  

Gentle hugs,

Rachel

The pain will subside at some point Bubbles but no one can tell you when this will happen. There is no set time limit with grief. I believe that when you loose someone close to you just because you can't see them doesn't mean they're not still near, you carry part of your mum within you and nothing can take that away my sweetheart.....love and hugs. carol x

i joined this site becuse i wanted to talk to other mums and at first i dont think i dare even comment on other peoples blogs especially the bloggers who were ill

initially i did find a couple of mums ...but they didnt stay around ........ gradually i have "met" loads of different wonderful people some having treatment ...some recovered ...some carers ...some family members .....i sorta forgot about why i was first here .......... and then suddenly this past couple of weeks i keep "meeting" mums .......now i know i am not crazy ..... i know because we mums all feel the same

i think you will find lots of daughters on this site and you will support each other through this very difficult time

one little thing which may help

have you sorted through your fotos of your mum

find your faves ....you know happy memories /favourite dress/family gettogethers etc etc and keep them close by

keep looking through them soon these happy memories will overshadow the sorrow of her last few weeks

sending you hugs

xNx

Hi Bubbles, eight months is not long,it has

been 12years and eight months since my

Mum passed away, i still get my sad days

but the pain is not so raw. I never thought

i would see the day when i would look at

my Mums photo without crying, but that

has now got better and i can remember

the Mum i had loads of laughs with, and

you know what, i was looking in the mirror the other day and it was if my mum was looking back at me, then i realised it was ME and that might sound

weird but it brought me comfort as if my

mum was still living on in me.So just take

one day at a time, and be kind to your

self. You will always love your mum and

she will always be with you, memories

never die.

 Love and Hugs LucyLee. XXXX