Dad's passing

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Less than 3 weeks after the news that dad had terminal liver cancer, he has passed away.  I cannot believe how quickly the time has flown by.  He went into our local hospice last Friday and died late last night with my mum and their dogs by his side.

He went so quickly at the end, very peacefully.  The last few days have been upsetting and exhausting, and I know the following days will be the same while I support my mum through death notifications, funeral arrangements and the needs of daily life.  But in a strange way I'm relieved that we've reached this point, because whilst it's been a shock to lose him so quickly I'm thankful that he didn't suffer for long.  And he had the chance to say his goodbyes with loved ones first. 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blueb,

    I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing.

    Sending you lots of love and strength for you and your mum.

    People say it gets easier........i'm not sure if easier is the word i would use yet (it has been nearly 8 weeks since i lost my amazing Dad) but what i would say is that now it doesn't occupy my every thought, if that makes sense.

    Take Care of yourself and your mum and feel free to pm me if you ever want to chat.

    Love

    Vicki

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi BlueB,

    My deepest sympathy goes out to you your Mum and Family,as you say at least the end was peaceful and he got the chance to say his goodbyes.

    Yes Blue this coming weeks are going to be very draining on you and your Mum. But at least you will have eachothers support and Love. May your Dad

    Rest in Peace.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    So sorry to hear of your Dad passing away, but thankfully he was able to say goodbye to all his loved ones.  It must have been so hard though, such a short time.  Like you say though, thankfully he did not suffer for long.  

    Take care of yourself and your mum.  I know I was so busy helping mum after my dad passed away last year, with funeral arrangements, etc, that my grieving did not really start for a week or so afterwards.  And then I wasn't sure if I was grieving right? (if there is such a thing), it hits us all differently.  There is no wrong or right way.  

    Hugs to you and keep in touch.

    Nic xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blue, so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. It is such a shock when it comes so quickly, but, like you say, you wouldn't want him to be suffering if he was never going to get better.

    Take one day at a time and remember to take some time to look after yourself also.

    Wishing you and your family all the very best.

    Christine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Blue,

    I am really sorry to learn that you have lost your dad so quickly. Please try to gain some comfort from the fact that it was peaceful and that he is no longer in pain.

    I know that your emotions must be very raw just now, please remember that you can turn to everyone here whenever you need.

    Best wishes Sharon (((hugs)))