I know this may sound daft but doing these blogs makes me feel a whole lot better, but when i reply to any blogs i do it in my own inimitable way thats with a joke or a sarcastic comment. i dont mean to be this way its just that everything that has happened to me over a period of so many years is that i deal with it with laughter, well sort of laughter sometimes its very dry and sarcastic but there is nothing meant by it. I don't mean to offend anyone and if i do i apologise now whole heartedly, i know humour and answers sometimes dont go together but i find it does so thats me, a very dry sarcastic tell you how it is kind of guy. My partner of the l;ast 4 years loves my sense of humour, our boys groan at my stupid and silly jokes, they tend not to have heard them or "not that one again?" my party piece is the "time on your cock " joke, work it out for yourself lol when i was told at first that i had got this terrible thing there was a doctor asking me questions, my consultant had just told me " Mr Bows you have got cancer, and we are gonna treat it with radio therapy" then this other doctor asked me " Have you got any allergy's?" "Yes, Cancer and Radio therapy........lol ...... The consultant shook his head and with a smile said "I like your attitude." with this i then had to tell my family that i had got this terrible thing, so i did it with humour, the boys when i told them were happy i was coping, or so they say, and well my gf cried making me cry too, so if i respond with a sarcastic wise crack its my way of dealing with the situation, in my opwn way, again apologises if i offend its not intended to offend
Thanks for reading and comments are more than welcome
Biggles13 (aka BigAl)
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