am i daft

Not daft, Biggles.  But what you have to understand is that a lot of us use this site to actually talk freely about cancer, cos we can't do it in the real world, with people who don't understand what we're going through, and hopefully never will.

No-one needs to do anything here, we just do what we feel we have to do.

Marsha x

Part of the reason why i love this site is so i can talk about cancer freely :-) If i mention anything infront of my family i just get given that look lol

I know how they are all hurting so i say as little as possibe to them!!

If you can find something to distract me even if its just for ten mins then i would be very gratefull lol

:-) xx

OMG "the look"!!  Is that the "rolly eyes" look, or the "shhhhhh" look or the "here she goes again" look or the "I really wish she wouldn't" look or just the "sympathy" look?

Marsha xx

HAHAHAHAHAHA its all of the above!!! I think they are scared incase you suddenly burst into tears... or maybe..... its because they might burst into tears lol

Emma xx

we just had a 2 week holiday in our old town in england, the number of people (who had heard through the grape vine that i had cancer) who we bumped into gave me a look that said oh wow your still alive then!! lol

i think we need a mixture of ALL sorts of bloggs so that people can choose depending on where thet are at that moment. i know i have come on here looking for reassurance, information, someone to talk to who actually understands what i am saying and feeling. when i log on i could be happy, sad, scared, confused angry etc  Today i've had a good laugh so thanks Biggles - keep up the brill bloggs. love and hugs to everyone xxx sue