After chemo (dad's body couldn't cope with it so only had 2 and a bit cycles) and radiotherapy (also not very successful) my dad has now been put on the Gefitinib drug trial (been on now for 4 months). This has been successful in the way that it has stopped all tumour growth and spread (yippee!!).
However, dad's quality of life is crap. He survives on pancakes and sponge cake with a wee bit of tuna on toast occassionally. Everything else either sticks or he won't eat. He refuses easy food such as soups or the Fortisip drinks. He is barely surviving on the amount he eats. He also does nothing apart from walk from his bed to the sofa and back. Is this all we can expect? He just does not accept that the tumour not growing is a good thing and he can start to live a little. Mum is going round the bend and I am not far behind, having to support both of them.
I am not expecting him to be his old self but don't know where to turn. Is he depressed? Is anyone else on the Gefitinib trial and faces the same? Don't know where to turn. He lies to the doctors saying he is fine and is eating and getting around. He won't talk to the MacMillan nurse or dietician. Is this it? Its been a year of hell since he was diagnosed and is don't seem to be getting much better.
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