these past fews days i have been feeling a bit yucky, first time i have felt unwell. i couldnt start chemo because of chest infection hence feeling un well. hopefully antibiotics will kick in soon.my husband is walking on egg shells because at this moment in time he cant do anything right. i have been down right nasty and snappy. he doesnt deserve this hes been fantastic through all of thisi dont mean what i say and its not like me to be so nasty. i tried to apoligies but hes not having any. he wont even speak to me know and walks out the room rather than be with me.at this moment iam really down not fealing sorry for myself and without his support what will i do.
FormerMember
Please try to remember what they say, that your anger - and similarly his - is not against a person, but against the disease. It is an extremely taxing time for families and relationships. Hopefully you have a date for your treatment, and as that comes around, he too will have come round. It is a very hard time. Can your daughter speak to him about this? You mentioned that she is a nurse, and I'm sure that she can explain things to him. In the meantime, take your anger out on a bit of cushion-beating, ornaments-you-dislike-smashing, or other physical outlets (I take myself swimming, and find that bad feelings just float away across the water!). With best wishes xxx Penny
