Day 11 Bertie Bassets Return Journey

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Another good night with no temp or diarrhoea. He is still very confused though, and even though I know it's not really funny some of the things he is saying are very amusing.

It has taken me a week to get my ironing done (not that this is new) Bert usually does all the housework so it is difficult to keep up . But as it is only me there I don't mind I will clean when I get the time.

I am having trouble finding stuff for Bert to eat everything I take him he doesn't fancy I can only assume thet it has to do with the chemo. Perhaps he will lose some of the 3.5 stone  he put on while he was at home.

Teri

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Babybear, Yes the chemo plays havoc with their tastebuds something awful.  Then it becomes about texture.  I made Dave lots of soups.  For some reason he was able to take those very well.

    Best, Lori

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    HI Babybear, when I was having all that dreadful chemo I didnt eat for weeks, i lost so much weight, when I got home I found that trying to eat my favourites didnt help. But when I tried things I wouldnt normally eat a lot tasted better, I think it might be something to do with taste expectaion and the fact that the chemo does change the taste of things. try something he can eat but doesnt eat often, but a smaller portion.  ONce he gets going again it will improve over the weeks. love and hugs to you both. xoxoxoxox

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh and you keep laughing hun, I am sure he will too when he realises and will be glad he has given you some amusement. Perhaps you could write them down and look forward to telling him when he is better.  xoxoxox

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks ladies. Lori I think I will try soups he was looking for minced beef tonight so I will make some of that too. Lynne you are right it is good for us to keep laughing although he doesn't find it funny but sometimes if I don't laugh I feel I will cry and not stop. Especially when he phones and ask why I never visited and I just spent 2 hours with him and he could not remember. granted he was asleep some of the time but he was up sitting in a chair talking to me but he forgot.

    Still these things are sent to try us

    Love Teri

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Just thinking about you hun, hope you are doing ok, managing and all.  

    love and hugs

    xoxoxox