5th Feb 2010 Bertiebassett

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I can't believe it is the 5th Feb already where does the time go !!

Bert is feeling a lot better today although not out of the woods yet they have stopped his IV antibiotics so fingers crossed. We are looking towards Thursday for going home as we are have a hospital bed installed in the house he is no longer mobile and cannot get up stairs to bed, A little rearranging of furniture in the sitting room and we will have it in there where if he wants to he can watch TV. He has a catheter in and that will remain in which will help me as I was having to change him 7/8 times a night he also has his medication for aggression and agitation in a syringe driver so he is an awful lot calmer.

The consultant said today that this infection ( I don't think they actually identified where it was) has been much worse than any previous infections.

He wants to go home to die  as the thought of the hospice terrifies him and there is no way I can change his mind so rather than make things worse I will keep him at home

We were discussing (I was) what would happen if he spiked a temp and I did not bring him into hospital.The consultant said that this would be fine so long as his GP was happy to give him antibiotics at home. Soon it will be time to withdraw treatment as it is no longer helping him but I would wherever possible like to keep him home. I was sure he would agree to this which he has but I still need the option of admission if I cannot manage at home with him

I have stayed with him all week in the hospital and they have been very good but there is nothing like you own home.

Love Teri

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teri

    You are one of the best. Our love goes out to you both.

    Andrew xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    No words Teri, just love and hugs, for you and your Bert.   xxxxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teri,

    I  Hope you are taking care of yourself, as well as having to give all your Love and strength to caring for Bert I have given up trying to figure out where you get all this strength from.

    Take care my Thoughts are with you Both.

    Love Sarsfield.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    What gives one the strength at times like this only Heaven knows,and thou you have heard this many times Teri you are a strong lady and your Love for Bert knows no bounds. Home for now is the best place to be, my thoughts are with you both.

    With Love Lucylee. xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Teri

    you are going through exactly the same things that I did three months ago and all I can say is that when K's treatment was withdrawn he slipped into a coma and died very peacefully.

    I was so scared as I didn't know how the end might be but it was so peaceful and hard as it was I knew he felt no pain.After the terrible times we had during the last few weeks with his aggression and disorientation I could only be relieved.

    You have both been so strong during these last few weeks that I hope things are easy for you and peaceful for Bert.

    Take care

    Love Tarnie xx