Any support appreciated!

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This is my first time on one of these boards so hope I am doing it right?! After a heavy bleed in April of this year I was finally diagnosed with Stage 3a CC in May. My planning scan showed an enlarged kidney so I was admitted for a stent to be fitted. Unfortunately it went wrong and instead of coming out the same day, I ended up in hospital for 2.5 weeks! This delayed my treatment but finally started my 5.5 weeks of radio and chemo therapy in June. Reacted quite badly to both as my tumour was so low down. Spent many days in bed just too exhausted to move and in too much pain. Barely managed to drag myself out of bed to the car for the 1 hour journey for treatment. Finally finished this treatment so had a couple of "free" days before my last stage of treatment began. This had to be carried out at another specialist hospital again because of the location of my tumour. Unfortunately when inserting the rods for the bracytherapy a needle was broken inside of me so I was transferred via ambulance to another hospital. Despite 2.5 hours of searching they were unsuccessful at locating the needle and so it remains inside of me and I was transferred back to the original hospital to complete my treatment. Unbelievably when removing the rods a bleed was caused resulting in yet another urgent transfer to the other hospital where I remained for 4 days. They eventually put a stitch in and I was allowed home. Since returning home I have had recurring infections and am still suffering side effects from the treatments. As a result I was taken back to hospital for an examination under sedation. The result of this is that some of the tumour remains. I have now been told that my ony hope is to have a radical hysterectomy. However I am only eligible for this if my tumour has not spread any further. I have 2 children aged 3 and 7 and a wonderful, supportive husband who I can not bear to leave. I am waiting for an urgent scan and will basically know within 1 week whether I am going to die! I am absolutely terrified and would really appreciate hearing from anyone who has been through this and come out the other side.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Karen

    Just wanted to say hi and to say that I will be thinking of you next Friday and hoping for a positive outcome for youxx Try not to stress yourself too much over the week, think positive and dont dwell on what may be, hopefuly you will be able to have the surgery (my stepsister had radical hysterectomy for stage 3 cc followed by chemo, and she is clear 3 years down the road.) I dont know much more about her treatment so cant be of more help, but wanted to let you know that you should continue to hopexxx Sending a (((hug))) your wayx

    Love to you and your family, Sharonx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Karen I really truly hope that it is time for your luck to change.

    You have been through so very much in such a short time. I am so sorry.

    Karen I know the waiting is the hardest thing but try not to waste time worrying about next friday as this will not change the outcome and can only make you more ill.

    Hopefully it will be good news! Even a terminal diagnosis doe's not mean that it will be soon.

    There are lots of people on this site who were given short odds and are still here years after the odds have passed.

    Try to remain positive and hopeful. When the doctors have the results they will plan your treatment. When treatment starts take it one step at a time.

    Live for today and let tomorrow take care of itself. Thats all we can do.

    You are still here your family love you. Save your energies to make lots of wonderful memories with them.

    My thoughts are with you Karen and I wish for a happy outcome for you.

    Keep us informed and remember we are your friends now and we will support you every step of the way.

    Lots of Love Julie X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Karen,

    The hardest part of Cancer treatment is waiting for the results. But as I always say on this site dont go jumping the gun until you get the results. Sometimes its not as bad as you think. so just be patient. All the best and Good Luck.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My oh my Karen, what an awful time you've had, If you can get through that, you can get through anything!! We all know the anxiety when waiting for results. I too had a CT scan on a Friday and my results were discussed at a MDT meeting Monday morning. I was told my diagnosis Monday afternoon. Whatever your result, you can depend on your Mac friends to help you through, but I'm keeping everything crossed for a good result.

    Angela xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I have a different cancer but it is stage 4 but 2 yrs after diagnosis I am still well. hope you have a good result on friday. you are very brave to have gone through so much already. Fingers crossed.

    Love Jen XX