Very bad days and even worse days

I know how youre feeling i lost my hubby niall on the 11th august and i am lost without him.He was my right arm and my world and now i cant see him or talk to him anymore. I hate going to the grave as i know hes there and i cant see him or be with him. Nobody will understand it because they are not going through it. Keep strong as much as you can its my 3 young kids that are keeping me going but it really is hard. Big Hugs Pink.xxxxxxxxxxxx

Its very hard trying to find the will to face

the days without your loved one, but you

really dont have a choice, you keep going

for your family. And yes your right no

one really understands your pain unless

thy have had to go thru the same thing

themselves. I send hugs to you Annie

and to you Pink and hope you wont always feel this lonely.

Love Lucy Lee. xxx

Hi Annie,

I know friends and family don't understand - they love and care but they don't understand.  

Just remember that you are the person that you are partly because of Robert.  He is always with you because there are things about you, sayings you have, things you do, how you react to certain things, all these personality traits of yours were shaped because you loved him and he loved you.

One day at a time, at your own pace.

Judi xxx