Thanx for all your replies, My husband and I have had many talks and he is depressed and this last week he has made a real affert to help, I think maybe he has relized with my threat of leaving how serius this is. He is not a person to discuss his feeling to anyone which doesn't help but we have both said we need outside help as we were having problems before i was diag but they just got swept under the carpet and now rear there ugly head.
Had my chemo on thurs and they have stopped the vincrist drug cos of the pain and numbess in my fingers and they also think i'm now going through the change which i was told when i had my radio in oct around my pelvis that this would prob happen,.
Thanx again everyone your support has been a real help xxxxxxxxx
