its one month today since i lost my mum, my grievingfeels like its getting worse rather better, itsvery easy for people to say that time is a great healer but they have no idea of this situation. does time heal?
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Hi Weeann,
Yes its very easy for people to say, dont worry time
is a great healer. Yes Ann it is a great healer but it takes a long time. You will still have a lot of good memories and Happy times when you where younger with your Mum. So Im sorry it is a long hard road. But eventually you will start to find things getting a bit easier. The one thing you will never forget is the love you had for your Mum, and her for you. That will always be at the back of your mind. But yes the pain will ease sometime, just dont expect it to happen quickly, All the best and Good Luck may your Mum R.I.P. You look after yourself.
Hi Ann, I am so sorry to hear you have lost your mum to this dreadful disease. I lost my dad last April and can tell you there are times I feel worse instead of better.
Like Sarsfield says, I do believe time is a healer, but it takes a long time. A lot of people have told me the hurt never fully goes away, we just learn to live with it.
Right now, I still feel that I will never be truly happy ever again. I don't know if that will change in time, but I still take one day at a time and don't have preconceived thoughts about how my future will be.
I wish you all the best for the future and please know that you are not alone. I am always here if you want to chat.
