Concentrate on the what is and not the what ifs.

  • Today is a good day

    Today I met up with a very good friend who I hadn’t seen for a long while and we went for a lovely meal, it was great to do something very normal, and feel good about it. 

    But it also brought up a lot of painful memories of the cancer, the diagnosis and surgery and the long road I travel to recovery. But I felt good to really open up about everything and it also gave comfort to my friend who knew I was getting…

  • Listening to my Doctor is not easy.

    It suddenly appeared to me that when your diagnosed with cancer alsorts of feelings come spinning in your head. The main ones that seem to crop up and ones I too have experienced is “I am I going to die “ I think this is a very common feeling and it probably causes a lot of anxiety among us as cancer patients, and also our families who are worried for your future too. The next one was “why me” for reasons I can’t understand…