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We all deal with stress in our day-to-day routine. But stress can easily become too hard to manage, harming our physical and mental health. April is Stress Awareness Month and in this blog, editor Helena suggests some ways to cope with stress and manage some of its side effects.
1) Change up your locationGet some fresh air
Something as simple as breathing in fresh air can help when stress gets out of control. When you feel under pressure, staying in the same environment for too long may make things worse. Before you know it, words seem to lose meaning and it’s hard to concentrate. Sometimes, it feels like your brain has suddenly stopped working and this feeling can cause you to panic. Changing your scenery can help to refresh your thoughts and calm you down. Remove yourself from the stressful environment for a few minutes to remind yourself there is a bigger picture.
2) Out of the brain and onto paperMake a list
This is one of the things I do all the time to deal with stressful situations. Sometimes, my brain feels like a filing cabinet that’s overflowing, with information spilling out everywhere. It can help to get the information out of your head and onto some paper. You could use a diary, post-it notes, even your phone. Find something that works for you and allows you to free up some space in your head. When things are written down in front of you, they can often seem more manageable and less intimidating.
3) Get yourself movingExercise
Exercise isn’t just for maintaining good physical health, it also helps your mental well-being. Even gentle exercise, like going for a walk, gives you time to focus on energising your body. Physical activity will also encourage your brain to release chemicals (called endorphins) that can lift your mood and help you handle stress. It can also make you feel more in control, because you’re doing something for yourself. This is vital when managing expectations that you (or others) have of yourself.
4) Food for the body and soulEat well
Eating a variety of fruit and vegetables, enjoying fresh food and drinking plenty of water will improve your mood and energy levels. For most people, a healthy diet includes lots of fruit and vegetables, some starchy foods, such as potatoes, some meat or fish, some dairy products, and a little fat, salt and sugar. It’s normal to not always feel like eating well, and sometimes we eat our favourite foods to treat ourselves. This is also important for socialising and enjoying our day-to-day lives. But in general, a healthy, balanced diet can help give us the energy we need to handle stressful situations.
5) A problem shared...Communicate with others
Sometimes, stress can make you feel like withdrawing from people. Of course, you may need this time to recover, physically and mentally, from a period of stress. But it’s important that you communicate with people around you, so your emotions don’t take over. Even if you don’t want to discuss the things making you stressed, talking generally can take your mind off things and help you relax. It’s often useful to remind yourself of what exists outside of the stressful situation you are currently experiencing.
6) Don't underestimate the power of sleepFind a pattern that works for you
While we sleep, our brains release chemicals that stop our bodies making stress hormones. So, when we are having difficulty sleeping, our bodies never fully ‘calm down’. Allowing yourself time to relax before bed and creating a routine can help signal to your brain that it’s time to sleep. Being more active during daytime, regulating the temperature in your bedroom or having a bedtime snack (avoiding caffeine, alcohol and sugar) may also help. You should do whatever creates a calm atmosphere that you feel comfortable in. If you continue to experience problems, talk to your GP.
Coping with the emotional effects of cancer and trying to absorb all the information doctors give you can be stressful. We have a number of booklets that can help with this, as well as lots of information on our website. This includes information for friends and family.
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Thank you for this excellent article about stress. I have had a good deal of stress and high anxiety lately. I do go outside everyday to go for a 30 minute walk and that helps greatly. The thing with NETS, the anxiety comes on fast and strong when something is not right in my world, never did that before. Anyway, thank you for this great article!
I have always liked to paint and sketch, but my diagnosis last October of thyroid cancer gave me the impetus to really get on with it and take the development of my skills more seriously. I have sketched and painted almost every day since then, and it has helped me to get through a period of isolation in hospital as well as some periods of anxiety. Even if you think you can’t draw, you can find all kinds of demos to follow online, and you can forget about everything else that is going on while you try. Happily, I am now in recovery, and I have even started a small art group in my village.
Good tips to manage stress, but you've forgotten the MOST IMPROTANT THING: to look at the SOURCE of the stress and deal with that, otherwise you keep wiping the floor while the water keeps dripping in. Good luck! Fiona
I have a brain tumour and if I canny understand what people are telling me or explaining to me I get so stressed I can’t think straight and some people don’t try to understand what I’m going through
I go to the gym three times a week, and just have one hour work out. I now find that I can do more in the hour than what I used to be able to when I first started. This is good for clearing the mind. I get a healthy diet because I cook from scratch, no take aways. When I first had my operation, when I was discharged I wrote my life story. When this was finished I started writing poetry, of which I now have a portfolio of 40. I am involved with many things with MCMILLAN, two head and neck support groups and Advanced motorists, and living with and beyond cancer group All these keep me so busy, that I haven't got time to dwell on things. I have made great friends with MCMILLAN people. Eric
I forgot to mention that I am just shy of 79 years old.
I have taken up knitting since having my rectal tumour removed August last year.The knitting takes me in to another zone it is so relaxing.Since my diagnosis I have had my first granddaughter and became a great aunty to another baby girl.It has been a positive focus.I try to walk for at least an hour a day weather permitting.I have travelled by train some days to build my confidence and a change of scene does me the world of good it makes me feel like my old self .I am turning 59 years this week and wow what a year it's been!
I am 5 years cancer free and have just had phase two of breast reconstruction. My journey has been long and I have anxiety and depression. I have also just finished 12 weeks of CBT and I'm still trying to get my life back on track.
I have just gone back to my normal 30 hours a week following phase two and had a melt down at work yesterday and will be referred to occuptional health by my manager. I am a nurse and have had a lot of support from work and occupational health. Work is a major cause of my stress and I do work hard to try and put things in place.
Today has been a lovely day, met with a riend and we walked into the village and had lunch and walked back again. Today I felt stress free and relaxed like my old self.
Other chronic health problems add to my stress and tiredness and fatigue play havock with my mood. It feels like it is a constant battle some times.
Your article is excellant and so true. Thank you for writing it.
What a great article on stress.I have reflexology & Reiki twice a month.This is my treat.It helps me to sleep.I also like listening go music.regards Amandah
Music really helps me. Before I was diagnosed with TNBC I was part of a local community choir. Walking back in the week after I was diagnosed was actually really hard but the people there really got me through it all from the operations, during the treatment and then afterwards waiting for the all clear. But what really helped was being able to just myself each week in the music and words. It helped me through the dark times.
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