Hi, I joined here a few weeks ago, thinking I had stage 1 kidney cancer.I am 61 years old. Details are on my profile page.
I saw the urologist today and am stunned to be told I have Stage 4 kidney cancer, it's spread to both lungs already. They can't operate to remove my kidney. It's incurable.
There is a possibility of immunotherapy, I will hear from the oncology department soon.
I don't know where to begin to process this. I joined the Incurable cancer group just now but can't work out how to post. Telling my adult daughter this afternoon was very hard.
I feel lost. I am too afraid to Google, as the thought of a drawn out painful illness terrifies me.
