Hi everyone. I have been mulling it over, whether to post this here or not, as I am aware that several people in the group are really having a rubbish time with things at the moment. I had a real dilemma as to whether to share my news or not, but after speaking with a friend from the group, he has made me realise that good news is so important to others in the group.
When I was diagnosed 7 years ago with metastatic sarcoma in the lungs, the news was very dire. My GP phoned me with the news, that I had several tumours in both lungs, and it didn't look good. I was then passed to respiratory who did all the relevant tests and scans, and before passing me to oncology I was told they thought I would have 6 months to live. By the time I had reached oncology I thought I was pretty much written off. I was a mess, I was 45 years old, my youngest child was 13. My oncologist explained that my cancer was very rare, and I was incurable, but It was treatable. Her words to me were "you are in my hands now, trust me" .
Yesterday I had my follow up oncology appointment with results from recent scan. I am very pleased to announce I am still in the stable Mabel club. I feel very lucky that I am able to share my news with you all, my only wish is that others will be able to join me in the stable club.
Thats good and long may it continue. As you say many people here may not have the same news to share. Some people may. The point is, hope is for some people but not for me. I personally dont think hope or wishing makes any difference. You either get through it or you die. The disease process happens anyway. So on that note, im not a member of the stable club.
I get it Tony, I really do. That is why I wasn’t sure whether to post or not. I hope you did not find me insensitive for doing so xx
Not.at.all. We deal with it the best way we can. im a kind of black and white approach. Its my way of coping.
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