THE ORIGINAL GANG OF MUSHROOM ROPE BUILDERS (i.e Mel & Em's thread cont...)
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This is the start of a new journey for me and my much loved friends from the original Oesophegus thread on general discussions.
We have become a close group and this will be our new home to continue our journey as life has become very hard for many of us and we keep re-living our journeys with lots of newbies which puts us all back a bit.
So my lovely friends Mel, Sam, Helen, Bern, Jac, Nic, Dawn, Sue, Cath, Lesley, Jani and the many other special friends Mel and I have made over the last 16 months this is it we have a new home.
Love to all and extra strength to carry us through our next stage XXX
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My Dear Jac,
Try so hard my lovely, to let the worry take care of itself.
Things will happen regardless of your worrying, so put a huge effort into seizing all the moments of your family together. I know you must think me some type of fool for even suggesting it, but this is a regret that I hold from my time with Mum. I wish I had spent more time just enjoying having her with me, rather than worrying about what would happen next.
So many people are hoping and praying for you all, we all wish there was something that we could say or do that would make things better.
Good Morning, well I hope it is a good one for you all
I'm first post of the day and its late, so have you all overslept?? Slackkers!!!!
Jac - I hope and pray that today you were able to awaken with a renewed strength inside you. I hope and pray Dan is still in tip top spirits and today will bring you all some fun, laughter and love. You are a family and Mr C can sod right off, cause your love is stronger than it. Your spirits are stronger than it. Big hugs special lady. XX
Much love to you all. Sorry, gotta fo and do some work...will someone please win the lottery and let me give up work?!!
Catch ya later, after I have done some reports. Ooodles of Love Bern xx
Well, here you go. This is for you all. And an extra big one to those who need it today...
Also, can you pop onto the 'we all have one thing in common' thread. Its Beckstar birthday - some of you I am positive know her. Its her birthday today and the first one she is celebrating without her dad. So, it would be lovely for her to smile and feel extra special.
Sorry everyone, Brooke's birthday today and been busy notting 5 princesses ready for the Frankie and Benny's party at 6 ha ha yes I have to start now!!!!
Thanks Jac for allowing yourself to talk here I am glad that you can come here for support your loved by us all and you can do this with our rope holding onto you. XXX
Keep doing it everyone having more bad days than good at the moment!!!!! Knew it was goo hit me hard but hell I never expected this.
Em, hope this evening goes well. Honey sending you a big hug. You make sure you keep writing how you are feeling too. Don't bottle it all up, sweet. We may not have the answers, you just know we won't judge and have some of understanding of what you are going through.
Nic - this Sat, honey. I will be sending you a big hug at 2PM. Just for you. So when you see the clock know that at that time I will have been thinking of you and hoping that as hard a this is, your mums love will also give you the strength to smile at past antics. To smile at your present and to smile when looking to your future (bit hard that one!!). Cause your mum gave you life and wanted you to have the best in life. She gave you the best of herself and is still with you. XX PS: Thanks for putting that post on.
Melly - where you gone to? Not liking you not being around. You ok??
Den - how you doing? What you been up to? How is bump?
Sam - where are you??? OK, I know I have been slack, thinking I had responded when I hadn't. Hope you good honey?
Jac - you are not far from my thoughts honey.
OK, I was going to start looking for Helen, Dawn, Kelsey, Lesley, Sue, Rach, Heidi, Wendy - hey Wendy you had baby Bern yet?!! - but I think you have all gone off and having a big party together?!! Well, I hope you are having a marvellous time and spreading the love.
Yesterday, I felt like I was going to burst. Cause even though so many are having a tough time on here at the moment, the love, the support is unfaltering. I think you are all SUPERB. You are dealing with things that life throws your way the very best you can and I am just in awe of your strengths and courage. Ooooo you have given me a happy heart. Thank you all. Love and hugs Bern xx
Now come and join me. Stand proud and tall. Ready?? Two finger salute..Up yours to cancer
I'm still around Bern, just busy as the kids are off school this week. Got your reply hun, no worries X
Melly - it's ages since we had a catch up, how are you my friend? X
Em - so sorry you are finding things hard at the moment, it's very understandable with the anniversary coming up. Don't shut yourself off from us though hun, we are always here for you. I hope Brooke is having a great birthday X
Jac - my thoughts are still with you and your family and I am just one of many with you in spirit, hoping to help in some small way X
Wendy - pipster still being lazy? Hope you ok X
Helen - hope you are behaving yourself but having lots of fun as well! X
Nic - big hugs as I know you are struggling. We are here for you Nic X
Kelsey - it's so good to have you back with us. I hope things are ok with your Dad X
Den - hope you keeping ok and looking after that little bundle of yours X
To all others a great big (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) for you all X
Big week coming up for me as I'm doing the race for life on Sunday and then next Saturday (7th) will not only be the six months anniversary of Dad going but it would also have been Mum and Dad's wedding anniversary. I've been trying to sort out the headstone for then but it's looking unlikely that it will happen on the day. It doesn't feel quite real that half a year has gone already, where has the time gone?
There is no need for any donations but please let me know the names of your loved ones so that I can put them on my t-shirt on Sunday. Wish me luck everyone as I think I'm gonna need it!
Sam, i hope you all cope with next week, it is also 6 months since my Dad went, amazing how quickly it has gone past, huge hug coming your way . Good luck with the Race for life, would you be kind enough to put Dads name on your shirt Ron Jessup, Thanks love, lol Den xxxx
. And an extra big 
