THE ORIGINAL GANG OF MUSHROOM ROPE BUILDERS (i.e Mel & Em's thread cont...)

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This is the start of a new journey for me and my much loved friends from the original Oesophegus thread on general discussions.

We have become a close group and this will be our new home to continue our journey as life has become very hard for many of us and we keep re-living our journeys with lots of newbies which puts us all back a bit.

So my lovely friends Mel, Sam, Helen, Bern, Jac, Nic, Dawn, Sue, Cath, Lesley, Jani and the many other special friends Mel and I have made over the last 16 months this is it we have a new home.

Love to all and extra strength to carry us through our next stage XXX

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    what are we like, it may be confusing, but fun also
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    Hello all,

    Donna great to see you popping in. Did you bring any cake to go with the tea that Karen is making us?!!

    Well, hope everyone is ok and tip top. Need to go back and read some of the messages. Sorry, I been bad.

    Kelsey - big hug for you. Don't store it all up, make sure you release here. You have to, cause this is the only way to do deal with this. I have to agree with your thoughts honey about your dad. Sorry sweetheart. X

    Jac - thinking of you honey. Sending you oddles of hugs

    Nic - well you had loads going on the weekend which would have made you tearful anyway. Hope though this week, you can have some smiles and remember how fab you are?

    Melly - I think you been taking magic mushrooms!!! ha ha ha

    Cath - did I see Cath around at some point? Hellloooooooo

    Lesley - would it be ok if I ran with your dads name on my shirt too?

    Em - you been very quiet.....have you been found out and now hubby has put your hands in mittens so you can't type?!!

    Sam - you still running?? Or are you feet still soaking?? Well Done YOU!!! Congratulations and hope you are proud of yourself and your little one saw, that although this illness can bring much pain and saddness. Peoples fighting spirits do not die and we never give up hope, the fight to beat it!!

    Barbie - Hellooooo you on that dyson?? Well, you best give it a clean.....whats your favourite Boyzone song?? Wham still kick ass though!!

    Dawn - where you? You have your race soon. Good Luck.

    Wendy - Melly is trying to scare you into labour!!! If you have a baby that size, swap it in the hospital. For one that won't eat you out of house and home!!!

    Big hugs to you all. Love Bern xx



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    bern do you have milk and sugar lol
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    Bern



    Thank you for thinking of me Bern. Mac mentioned a potential for spread to the brain today and I know Mel thought the same. I'm having a conversation with his GP tomorrow. His behaviour is so worrying I'm concerned for my mom. It's irrational at best and just plain wrong at others so I need to trigger some action.



    A scary jolt to reality but just another day to a family living with cancer eh?



    Well am off to the park in a bit with little one. Though I've tried to continue as normal my head is beginning to spin. I'm told on the 'phone that I sound like a 'sensible girl' so I'll bear that in mind and keep gathering my strength!!



    Love to you all and I'll be in touch later no doubt.



    Kelsey



    PS off to a shoe sale later (I hope they're decent ones) but I'll let you know how it goes!
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    Kelsey,

    You need the GP to jump into action immediately with any and all support that is available. Your dad doesn't sound like he is too much in control, its not his fault. It doesn't help the heartache though, does it? You need to be prepared for what potentially may happen next. Somehow it makes it less scary, well it did for me anyway.

    Good luck with the shoes, if they don't have the ones you want, I think you should throw them on the floor and scream!! Sounds tempting doesn't it?!!

    Kels, now is the time that you need to keep off loading here. Your head spinning may just pick up a pace and if it does, we are here to slow it down for you. I have never met you so cam't say if I agree with 'sensible'!!!! You are doing whats needs to be done honey. There is no time for hysterics, you can only cope the best way you can./ Everyday is a new day honey. We are all here with you. Don't scream at what is not in control, you will just waste energy. Look at what you can do and that is loads.

    Big hugs honey and hey Karen has made tea...still waiting for cake from Donna though!! - white and no sugar for me is mighty fine!!

    Love Bern xx
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    Hi Ladies,
    Just thought I would let you know that the test results have come back and we have got the all clear,
    not sure about flavour yet but will find out on Friday
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    that should be enough for all of you to get a few
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    Hi ya Bern

    Thank you for thinking of me and everyone else on here. Yep i've got my race for life coming up at the end of June so im getting ready for it.

    Sorry i haven't posted for a while, it will be 1 year on the 27th of this month that Vince passed away.

    I've been feeling very angry and tearful lately and feelin sorry for myself. I just can't snap out of it, feelin like the whole world is against me, my job is going and everything is so dam unfair. (see i told you i was feeling sorry for myself lol).

    And breathe........ And so, in a nut shell im missing my Vince a lot, my heart is still breaking. I seems im not as strong as i thought i was.

    Such is life....... Anyway girlies how u all doing? Sending love to you all Dawn xxxxx

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    Hi ya Bern

    Thank you for thinking of me and everyone else on here. Yep i've got my race for life coming up at the end of June so im getting ready for it.

    Sorry i haven't posted for a while, it will be 1 year on the 27th of this month that Vince passed away.

    I've been feeling very angry and tearful lately and feelin sorry for myself. I just can't snap out of it, feelin like the whole world is against me, my job is going and everything is so dam unfair. (see i told you i was feeling sorry for myself lol).

    And breathe........ And so, in a nut shell im missing my Vince a lot, my heart is still breaking. I seems im not as strong as i thought i was.

    Such is life....... Anyway girlies how u all doing? Sending love to you all Dawn xxxxx

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    Den

    That's great news, my mate is trying to work out the flavour, chinese predictor (but she conceived on 29TH Feb leap year so do the charts work???? Feb says boy but March says girl)
    she's counting the heartbeats and even considering mixing her pee with drain cleaner.
    She is that nosey there is no way she could wait for a surprise in November
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    Den

    That's great news, my mate is trying to work out the flavour, chinese predictor (but she conceived on 29TH Feb leap year so do the charts work???? Feb says boy but March says girl)
    she's counting the heartbeats and even considering mixing her pee with drain cleaner.
    She is that nosey there is no way she could wait for a surprise in November