Told to get over it

HI Stitch5 

Clearly it was said by someone who has zero understanding of what you have been through and likely zero understanding of what such a procedure does to a person. Someone so ignorant is not worthy of your time.  

Thank you , I appreciate this am thinking the same now I’ve had time to clam down for a women that is older than me claims to have been through everything the world has to offer has to one up you if you have been through it she’s had it worse 

James is absolutely right don’t give her any of your precious time! Well done you for managing to pick up your daughter from school 3 weeks after your op. I had a hysterectomy too it’s a major operation you should feel very proud of yourself. Sending hugs

Linda xxx

Thank you ️

Hi Stitch5 

3 weeks is really early days after such major surgery and of course you are still having pain. People can be totally ignorant of things they haven’t experienced. As well as the physical recovery from the surgery you are also dealing with your cancer diagnosis. Just ignore her 

Thank you

Thank you all for the help and advice. I appreciate all of it you all have your own problems so taking the time to help me out a thank you all ️

this is amazing so happy you are in remission that’s a hell of a lot to go though sending love and hugs

You are more than welcome.... Take care of yourself 

So sorry that happened to you. You have done so well to be able to get as far as the school pick up. As well as the physical recovery there's all the emotional rollercoaster of tests etc. that led up to surgery and that takes time to deal with. To do that while being a mum puts you at superhero level for me.