Farming, rural communities and cancer

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Macmillan are committed to making cancer care fairer for everyone. This includes making sure that everyone has access to the right cancer support and encouraging people to seek help sooner. 

We know that people from farming and rural communities aren't always accessing the cancer support that they need. 

We want to make sure that the support available in our Online Community reaches everyone who needs it.

To start the conversation, we have asked people from Farming Community Network what they wish they had known when they have been affected by cancer. You can read what they have said in our Community News Blog:

What you wish you had known. Cancer and farming communities

We'd like to keep the conversation going, so you can connect with others who understand the unique challenges of cancer and farming or rural life.

Please do use this conversation thread to introduce yourself, ask questions and share your experience and support each other.

  • Hope you feel better soon 

  • Trying to cope with it all 

  • Has anyone any advice on encouraging farming family members to get more holistic support for their cancer diagnosis? I think my father in law needs more holistic support but it has been difficult enough to encourage him to attend appointments and treatment nevermind anything additional!

  • For us it was finding the right person that 'spoke his language' as such. There were only a couple of professionals my Dad would really open up to - ultimately it's because they understood and respected the farming lifestyle. Their support and check ins were invaluable in looking at the bigger picture.

    I saw so many opportunities for holistic support, such as reflexology, counselling or going to a support group, but this just wasn't very 'him' and was not something he would entertain. I completely understand your frustration! Like you, just getting him to attend for treatment was a challenge! Friends were great at dropping in for a chat and this was always a boost for him. I hope that helps - take care. 

  • Hi  ,

    It's Emma here from the Online Community Team. Thanks so much for sharing your experience, this is really helpful insight and I'm glad your Dad was able to find some people who better understood his situation.

    It would be interesting to know what it was that made your Dad feel understood or that he could open up to them.

    Similarly, did you come across any opportunities for support that your Dad would have joined aside from reflexology and holistic services etc?

    Take care,

    Emma (she/her)

    Online Community Team

  • My brother is a single Farmer. We lost our Mum last year and now my brother has a cancer diagnosis and beginning therapy.  His journey to hospital is about 3 hours.  I am concerned too as to how he can do his work with extreme tiredness. Is there support he can get.  I do his cooking and cleaning in the farm house and drive over 100 miles to see him weekly.

  • This is often a problem people in our rural communities face. It can feel overwhelming, but please don’t have to navigate it alone. I’d really encourage you to get in touch with your local Macmillan Information and support and Support Centre, the teams there are incredibly knowledgeable about the help and support available in your area.

    You’ll find them in most hospitals across the UK, and they are genuinely welcoming, so please do reach out and share your concerns. If you’re unsure where your nearest centre is, the Macmillan Helpline (Tel. 0800 808 0000) can point you in the right direction and make sure you’re connected with the support you need.

    Hope that helps a bit.

  • Are there any local charities that provide a volunteer driver service?

    It might help your brother a bit managing the tiredness if someone else can drive for him.

    Or perhaps is there nearby hospital provided accommodation he could use?

    I know its not straight forward with the farm but if he had someone to help on the farm during his treatment it might help minimise his treatment related fatigue.

    I completely agree with SamE123. You and him aren't alone. It's just about asking for and finding the right support.