I found out this week that it's highly likely my father (78) has prostate cancer which has spread to his back, hip and lung. He has refused a biopsy and is now waiting for an MID scan. We have had a very toxic relationship since I was 10 ( now 60), and after two sessions of therapy I have finally come to terms with it. However, since getting the news I'm finding that I just don't feel anything. Whilst I'm concerned and sorry that he's going through this, I find my emotions are all about my mum. Is this normal after what I went through all these years?