After losing my first wife to small cell lung cancer and managing to get past it bringing up my young son I met an amazing women and we have been together for 8 years unfortunately last week we found out she had cancer and I'm struggling I no I have to be strong but she so angry at the moment and when I try to help I am verbally abused as she .thinks I'm always using my previous dealings with my previous wife but I only trying to help just feeling alone and lost but its not about me as I not the one who is in a life threatening disease