Our journey Living with kidney cancer

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My brother was diagnosed with rcc last april,2010 after invesigations into heamaturia and heavy feeling legs! No other symptoms were present.

 During investigations into bladder infection! (i wish) and a CT scan it was discvered he had a 10cm tumor on his right kidney with vena cava involvement, he was fast tracked to the christie and to withington hospital with a wiew to urgent surgery (Nephrectomy) However this was deemed not safe at present so the docs did a pocedure called Embolisation to stop the blood supply to his kidney in hope that the nasty thing would shrink, i was with my brother throughout this operation in theatre, he was amazing, so so brave i talked  his ted stockings loose and all went well, things seemed gradually better, less blood in water, weight gained, for a few weeks.

The frank heamaturia returned with large blood clots so we went to hospital and he was admitted, the operation was repeated as the docs could see vessels missed first time, so off we went again.

 This was so bitter sweet for me, as i am a nurse and was absoloutly amazed and priveliged to see such a procedure done, however this was my sweetheart brother whom i adore and have an amazing relationship with, i had to trust the medical team to do what i couldnt.

I dont think i stopped crying for days and days, but i was as strong as an ox when with my R. Result it worked and things got a bit better for several weeks he gained strenghth and weight, he was started on Sutent, this gave him 4 months of stabillity, then scan showed progression in lymph nodes, the sutent was withdrawn and we were offered Temsirolimus trial at the Christie in Manchester, of course we have nothing to lose so took this chance both for R and for all of us for the future.

 He has faced this with such grit and bravery, the trial has been tough and have recently had a 2 weeks break due to awful side effects, his 1st scan since starting the trial is on tuesday11th Jan, i am terrified for him, i am routing for stability at least, for shrinkage at best, thats the only way we can possibly have nepherctomy with a lesser risk, R is very fatigued and aching at the moment and blood clots and bleeding are back, i am exhausted looking for a pathway to help and ease his trauma and pain.

To be continued.... Love and hope to all XXX Pati

 

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  • FormerMember
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    Oh my word  what a difficult month, my poor R has been very ill, the trial has been stopped, he will not be able to continue anymore, sad really, as the cx was held stable at scan, but the side effects are too debilitating, they knocked him off his feet. i really thought it was the begining of the end!!

    BBBut i am pleased to say things are now much better although we still have a huge fight just to keep stable, that is the best we can hope for. Back to see Drs on 17th to review physical status and if all is well we have another drug to try!

    Please god i hope this helps my sweetheart brother, this stress is off the scale as we are almost out of options!!! bfn Pati

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    thinking of u all xxx

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    The past few weeks have been very hard, Roy has been very poorly, i have looked after him at home, however it has been very full time! inbetween many hospital appts.

    Today Thursday 31st March i am taking him to hospital for addmission to repeat his Embolisation operation for a 3rd time!, this is a procedure to try to stop the tumor bleeding, by blocking off the bood vessels to it, i will be with him in theatre tomorrow (friday). My heart is on a roller coaster ride yet again!!! Hoping this paves the way to a new drug treatment to slow the demon down.

    The treatment has not been possible whilst he is loosing so much blood, as he is needing transfusions because of the loss, so a vicious circle, but here we go again 3rd time lucky!

    I so hope this helps him to improve, he is so brave X

    I hope to get into chat very soon as things improve for us, but this is such a busy stressful time, not to mention my 3 little children and the hum drum of everyday life!

    I think about you all often and send love to you all XX Take care Pati X