Our journey Living with kidney cancer

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My brother was diagnosed with rcc last april,2010 after invesigations into heamaturia and heavy feeling legs! No other symptoms were present.

 During investigations into bladder infection! (i wish) and a CT scan it was discvered he had a 10cm tumor on his right kidney with vena cava involvement, he was fast tracked to the christie and to withington hospital with a wiew to urgent surgery (Nephrectomy) However this was deemed not safe at present so the docs did a pocedure called Embolisation to stop the blood supply to his kidney in hope that the nasty thing would shrink, i was with my brother throughout this operation in theatre, he was amazing, so so brave i talked  his ted stockings loose and all went well, things seemed gradually better, less blood in water, weight gained, for a few weeks.

The frank heamaturia returned with large blood clots so we went to hospital and he was admitted, the operation was repeated as the docs could see vessels missed first time, so off we went again.

 This was so bitter sweet for me, as i am a nurse and was absoloutly amazed and priveliged to see such a procedure done, however this was my sweetheart brother whom i adore and have an amazing relationship with, i had to trust the medical team to do what i couldnt.

I dont think i stopped crying for days and days, but i was as strong as an ox when with my R. Result it worked and things got a bit better for several weeks he gained strenghth and weight, he was started on Sutent, this gave him 4 months of stabillity, then scan showed progression in lymph nodes, the sutent was withdrawn and we were offered Temsirolimus trial at the Christie in Manchester, of course we have nothing to lose so took this chance both for R and for all of us for the future.

 He has faced this with such grit and bravery, the trial has been tough and have recently had a 2 weeks break due to awful side effects, his 1st scan since starting the trial is on tuesday11th Jan, i am terrified for him, i am routing for stability at least, for shrinkage at best, thats the only way we can possibly have nepherctomy with a lesser risk, R is very fatigued and aching at the moment and blood clots and bleeding are back, i am exhausted looking for a pathway to help and ease his trauma and pain.

To be continued.... Love and hope to all XXX Pati

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Well its tuesday already! EEEEKKKK!!!! off today for dreaded 1st scan since the start of Rs drug trial, i am so so scared. My tummy is topsy turvy, oh please please please please no more nasties.

    R is very tired and deep in thought, he will never guess im a nervous wreck though as i talk his socks off!

    OK here goes my sanity, love to all on this journey, Pati X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Phew!!! another dose in, and scan done, now we must agonisingly await a phone call with the news!

    strangely i am relieved that the scan is done even though we dont know the outcome.

    now is feeding time in my zoo, so hey ho be back soon X Pati

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi all,

    It's been pretty tough lately to read about all those who have passed on, struggle with a decline, or struggle as a caregiver, but I tune in just about every day to see whatever news is here, and I think of you all often.  I suppose you could call me a "Mac junkie!"  Friends/family ask me why I read if it is occasionally discouraging - I guess I believe that the more knowledge I have, the better I can prepare for what lies ahead, good or bad.  That's not discouraging to me - so while I grieve along with all of you, and wish for really good news, I can usually stay postive for my brother (the most inspiring warrior I know) by engaging in this community. Thank you!

    But that's not why I am writing today! Today I am very anxious about his routine CT scan (waiting for call)

     I have listened to you all, and I understand that the anxiety comes each time even if things are good, but after 9 months of this journey I am still not used to the routine.  I wait and watch for any sign of decline, and I think I see stuff but not really sure.  I diligently watch for any signs of concern when we see the Onc and his nurse , and then I count the days until the next scan to verify, but even if it's a good scan the beast is always lurking, isn't it? - . Is it normal to always wonder for how long? for now i must wonder.....and wait......

    Thanks for listening - I will let you know how it goes.

    X Pati

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi,

    Well no scan results untill tuesday now, at least i wont be frantic eveytime the phone rings!! R is out with friends this afternoon, hes really well today (yesss)

    My husband and i are having a manic changing rooms episode in order to accomodate (and get rid of)  ever increasing cr*p belonging to ther people!

    The children are happily playing whilst we improve our enviroment!

    I cant remember the last weekend we were able to do any extra jobs. Long may it continue, Pati

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi,

    Well tuesday is here, i am getting ready to go to hospital with R for scan results and hopefully another Temsirolimus dose, please, please, please cx give him some reprieve.....this giving birth to kittens is so bad for me....... here goes     c ya soon xx