Dignity intact....well almost!

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Having some bone marrow taken - I wonder if there's any truth in it when the doctor tells you that some people hardly notice the procedure at all? 

I recently went to have some bone marrow taken as part of assessing the extent of the NHL and this is how things went.

The during the time in the waiting room we at first started to pass the time by reading a 1998 edition of What Caravan, but soon we were distracted by the noises coming from the room where this procedure was taking place.  The middle aged gent that went in before me was screaming the place down; the poor chap was obviously having a tough time of it.  The staff tried turning up the radio that was playing but it didn't work.  All those in the waiting room looked at each other and all were thinking "it could be me next!"

Well it was infact me next and I was determined not to crack.  With four people in the treatment room, including a couple of students who were there for the experience (their words not mine) the event was well attended.

As it turned out it was not a pleasant experience, but I suppose different people deal with it in different ways.  My method was to grit my teeth and clench my buttocks at the same time, or was it the other was round?  However I'm proud say I didn't scream once, and left the room with my head held high and my dignity intact.

Well I say intact - looking back now I had just spent 20 minutes bent double with my trousers at half mast in a room full of strangers!

Well...onwards and upwards!

Paul

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Paul

    Like you I have NHL diagnosed early Sept  I had to go through a bone marrow biopsy and agree it was not a pleasant experience. At the end of the procedure I recall  congratulating myself in front of all for not swaring. My consultant did apologise profusely at our next meeting for showing me the contents of the vial containing my marrow when I had not asked to see it, my response at the time was "gosh it looks remarkably like hamster food" what else could I say!  Please dont get me wrong my consultant has been and is absolutely brilliant. I wish you well with all to come you seem to have the right attitude to laugh and see the funny side it truly does help to lighten the load not only for you but for those close to you as well.

    As you say onwards and upwards

    Theresag

  • I think its down to the skill of who ever takes the sample, I would only ever have it done by the consultant and remember saying after mine is that it. The injection for local anesthetic was worse than the aspiration and neither were that bad.

    Your tale reminds me of guy in hospital in the bed next to my father in law, this guy screamed just as they approached him and talk about drama queens, it took us all our time not to roll around on the floor laughing at him. Nurses were not amused either.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I too had this procedure.....all I can say is 'what doesn't kill you just serves to make you stronger'....and no, I didn't scream either but I think I broke the nurses hand!!!  Ah well, occupational hazzard I suppose!!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    well my specialist told me it wouldnt be as bad as i thought it would be, only it was worse.....i yelled out that he was a lying f...b......and i told him after it was over that theres no way will i ever have a bone marrow biopsy again....i wont either....

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thanks for all your comments, I see that I'm not the only one who found the procedure unpleasant.

    Being a typical Brit I even thanked them at the end, and yes if people bump into me in the street, I always apologise!

    Also looking at the time some of these messages were posted, it seems Insomnia is quite common.