6 months already

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its been a long hard 6 months since trica left us.dont like to think about her but i know i need to come to terms just dont kow how to

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi

    I lost my dad on 14th April 2011, I am new to loss and I think it will take time. The hole I have inside me is very real, people tell me it will close up... and I will feel ok again... to be honest that scares me... so instead I am creating a place where inside me I can store all the wonderful memories of my dad and visit them whenever I want to... so rather than close the gap... I am creating a quiet space for us both to share time...

    not sure that this will help with losing your sister, just read your post and connected with you...

    With hugs Jules xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi

    So sorry to read about your sister.

    I lost my dad just over 4 years ago.  Jules that gaping hole never really closes it just gets cushioned. The  memories keep him alive and now I can laugh at things we shared. Time makes it a bit easier to cope, The first year is the hardest I think.. As birthdays and special dates happen and your reminded they are not here to celebrate.

      Hugs to you both

    Lorraine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi My Hope,

    My thoughts are with you and your sister tonight

    may she R.I.P. Look after yourself.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Carol,  can't believe it is 6 months now.  There will always be a special place in your heart and mind where you can remember Tricia and no one else can touch it and that is precious to you. Sending warmth and love to you xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    thank u all so much xxxx i loved her so much andthe hardest part is the fact i cudnst save her or help her...but i know now i cudnt have done anything... i just thank God that she went peaceully and with her family around her holding her

    youve all been a support and comfort to me this last yr and i wouldnt have go thru it with out ur help i love u all my friends..and my new ones.x