the journey

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my amazing dad has been battling cancer for nearly 2 years now(wish i had found this site then)i thought i would write a diary /blog of how his treatment is going. it all began back in april 2009 when a urine infection showed up a tumour on his right kidney.he was whisked in to hospital to have the kidney removed within a week and the op was a success.he felt great after the op and back to normal within days so it came as a great shock to us all at his 3 month check up that the cancer had returned.they found small nodules on his lungs and tumours in the bone(hip and bottom of back) by the start of october dad had been given the cancer drug sutent.the side effects he felt made him lose weight all his hair went snowy white,had no taste for food and nausea. the nausea was controlled with different drugs.one of the good things about this treatment was you got a 2 week break in each cycle so on his 2 weeks off his appetite returned and he started to feel better. the sutent meds kept him ticking away for 14 months.we got the news end of nov begining of dec 2010 that a tumour in the spine had grown from 7cm to 18cm so the sutent was not keeping the cancer at bay so he was removed from it. this came as a huge blow to mum,dad myself and brother as who knew what the next step would be. he suffered with pains in his legs and a scan showed a non malignant tumour compressing the spine making the legs painful so he had 2 lots of radiotherapy which def helped and shrunk the tumour.dad was told of a new drug that they wanted him to trial.sadly he was not suitable for the trial due to blood counts etc but was told there was a fairly new cancer drug called everolimus(afinitor) they wanted him to try. this however would need funding.the price was very high but like the sutent(which needed funding we were optomistic.the news back 2 weeks later was no PCT had turned us down but dads consultant had applied to another company and they said yes.dad has been on the new treatment 10 days now.the main side effect of this is such a sore swollen mouth with ulcers which stops his ability to eat and drink.he does seem quite out of it at the moment so we are contacting mcmillan nurses and his cancer nurse.

7th march 2011

dad has been admitted to hospital.for the last 4 days or so he has been quite out of it.he is very dissorientated ,grabbing for things that are not there,hallucinations,sleeping 22 hours a day.we have spoken to a nurse and she seems to think it could be to do with his type 2 diabetes as he had a urine reading of 27.8(very high) we were told to take dad to his cancer ward at the hospital where it seems it is not the diabetes but a build up of morphine pain relief(mum did stop giving him this 2 days ago as pain was ok and because he seemed so out of it)they have kept dad in for at least overnite and the morphine has been stopped. they have also stopped the cancer drug for now as his poor mouth is so sore so they want to try an get him back to better health before restarting the drug again. i will update when i have more news.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh Wendie you rblog is heatbreaking to read, my thoughts are with you and your family and i hope you get some nursingcare in for your dad otherwise you are going to to get extremly tired and worn out and be no use to any one hunni. xx Please take care and get some rest xx

    sam

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 9th 2011

    mum and dad didnt have the best nite. i checked on them just after 1am and they were both asleep.dad in bed and mum on camp bed. i stayed awake till about 2.45am then dad woke about 3am till 5am quite agitated and came out on to the chair. i slept through all of this and feel very guilty. steve woke and took over from mum from 3-5 so at least she has had some sleep last nite and this morning.

    have spoken to dad and he really does not know why he can sleep in chair for good few hours but in bed he cant settle. i have been recommended some relaxation cd for him so will see how he feels about that. mum is still loath at the moment to have nite care in so we will just have to ride this out a bit longer

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    MAY 9th 2011

    the trip to the dr went well.dad has been prescribed sleeping tablets just to get him through the night.mum and dad are going to stay on their own tonight to see how they are but know that me and my brother are only 10 mins away and at the end of the phone.dr also mentioned it may be a good idea to give dad a small foam collar to try and help hold his head up.i will update soon and here is to a peaceful nights sleep for both mum and dad

  • FormerMember
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    MAY 10th 2011

    dad had a much better sleep last night. he took a sleeping tablet just after midnite and mum got him into bed just before 1am and within mins was asleep. he then woke at 3.30am to go to the toilet and stayed awake till 4 am before falling asleep again till 8am!!! hopefully this is not a 1 off and it can be repeated as they both much happier this morning.i stayed at home last nite and fell asleep about half 11,woke up when sean left for work about 7am an then fell asleep again till 10am!!!

    physio is coming out to see dad today with a range of small soft collars so hopefully this will help him keep his head up

    will pop in and see mum and dad later after my netball game

  • FormerMember
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    MAY 11th 2011

    saw dad for a few hours yesterday and he seemed so much brighter.the nights sleep def helped him and he was eating so much better. his speech was much clearer and he was much more with it etc

    i have just rang mum this morning and last night did not go well.dad went to bed and slept for just over an hour and then was awake the whole night agitated and refused to sleep in the bed.also this morning he is talking nonsense so we think he may have a water infection now.mum is taking a sample down later so hopefully we will know soon .im on standby to go over if mum needs us at all