My husband is currently having chemo for secondary liver cancer. We have been told its terminal, how on earth do people cope with that diagnosis its like sitting on a time bomb waiting to go off. I am constantly looking at him to see if any changes are happening, what do we do, live life day by day or take a risk and really go for it with what time we have left. I know there are no real answers but some thoughts from anyone would be good.
FormerMember
To put a different slant on things....just try not to forget he is your husband. I know that this sounds obvious but sometimes I think cancer predominates over the person. Even though I am not terminal (well i hope that I am not) I know that I felt negated by the cancer and I just wanted to feel normal but nobody has treated me that way.
As for you ...I think you were the heaviest boots of them all. You have to be strong yet I guarantee your pain is immeasurable! Seek others where you can blurt out all your hurt and frustrations so you dont get lost. Please dont forget to take care of yourself.
