bad day

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FormerMember

4 Apr 2010

i hate feeling like this, had the biggest cry today, i said to my husband i cant do this on my own, and burst in to tears, and he climbed out of bed and gave me the biggest hug ever and said yes you can and so can i, i felt so bad i stopped crying and then thought to myself if he can then i can,..........sorry if im ranting again.....sandra...x

FormerMember over 15 years ago

I know how hard it is to see the one you love going through this. I must cry a dozen times a day but I dont let hubby or the kids see me and its such a strain. I hope you are feeling slightly better for releasing your feelings. Sending you hugs

Clare x
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locovan over 15 years ago

Bless you a group hug is need here xx
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FormerMember over 15 years ago

Hi Sandra we are all in the same boat. I can get tearful 10 times a day and its so difficult if your other half is understanding. I am now adept at hiding it. Every day I look for new signs and breath a sigh of relief when things are more or less the same. I cannot even change a plug and we have been married 43yrs and are as close as 2 peas in a pod. Mick is my best friend and we have no children so he is my whole family unit. My Mum is 90 and lives down the road and she now has problems getting about so I am trying to look out for both of them. If someone had told me 2yrs ago that I would have coped this far I would have said they were off their head. Friends tell me I am so good at coping but the problem is I havent come to the difficult part so I havent been tested at all yet. I have blocked out further down the line and I have told my husband he will stay at home. How easily that tripped off the tongue. My nursing/ capabilities are none existent. I am sure all of you will cope better than me.

Lots of love Theresa
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