OMG! Here we go!

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Hi everyone, have just joined as I thought it would help to put things down on paper.

Started a few weeks ago, thinking I had a lump in my left breast.  My Mum had breast cancer 27 years ago at the age of 35 and had to have a left breast mastectomy (and is still here to tell the tale).  On being referred by my GP, discovered nothing on my left but two tumours on my right, which after biopsies, came back as positive - I have breast cancer at the age of 36!

Things have moved very rapidly since then - bloods and tests, and I am having a double mastectomy on Wednesday 9th June 2010.  The Consultant and my Care Nurse feel that because I am only 36 and have numerous tumours, then a double mastectomy is best.  Have had to be officially measured (for my silicone and soft 'falsies') - I will be having reconstruction at a later date, as to have this done at the same time would complicate things if I need further surgery.  I will also find out shortly afterward surgery whether I will need chemo. 

I am trying to be positive (usually for those around me rather than myself) as I have a 9 year old Daughter and an 11 year old Son ... and a Husband who is trying to hold himself together for me! 

All in all, from the day of my GP to the day of my Surgery, will be exactly 4 weeks to the day! 

This week is the longest of my life! xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Hellie Wellie, sorry you have found yourself in this position, but like others have said, take inspiration from your mother. She beat it all those years ago and I'm sure you will too.

    You will still be in shock at this stage and worrying about your family. I have been there so know it feels. I was diagnosed with bc six and a half years ago. I had a lumpectomy followed by chemo and radiotherapy as a precaution, as, thankfully there was no sign of spread.

    I  am doing well and have not had any recurrence. There are loads of success stories on this site and beyond, as you know from your mum's experience.

    I wish you well in your treatment. Best wishes, Christine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    wow sounds like a wirlwind, I'd love to offer you a virtual hand to hold, and not just for this week!

    my name is Judie, I'm a Mum of four, they are my pride and joy, our experience it's been an 8 week roller coaster ... its my partner's Dad who we have now established has a rare leukemia so I can relate to the 'holding it together' thing ... big time,

    I've come to the conclusion I've lost the plot, if you read my blog you'll see why!

    thinking of you x