Fearful of the outcome of an operation

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Over the past two months, G has become increasingly breathless.  A scan done at Bart's two weeks ago showed fluid building up again in his chest cavity.  Thanfully things move faster in London than in Birmingham.  So, we have accepted the inconvenience and expense of him having the operation to drain the fluid at the London Chest Hospital.

I have tried so hard not to dwell on what this development might mean, but now that we are packed ready to travel down tomorrow, I am so afraid that we are about to hear bad news.

I am trying to be positive, and give thanks for the two years we have had together after his diagnosis, but without much success. 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hello, im thinking of you both ,and will cross my fingers for you , love and hugs jenni xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello my dear Daffie

    I will be keeping everything tightly crossed for you both and send you warmest 'cyber' vibes from the chilly north.

    Lots of love,

    Grace xxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello Daffie,

    I do hope that all went well for you and G today.

    Thinking of you both.

    Love,

    Heather x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    G is still poorly, even though the operation was a sucess, and he is home again. His breathing is as bad as ever, he seems to be losing the will to fight anymore. Yesterday, our 43rd wedding anniversary, he told me he thinks this may be the end.  I seem to be in some sort of trance, its as though its all happpening to someone else.