Its been awhile and a bit hectic!!!!

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Hi everyone

Its been nearly two months since my last post and I dont know where the time has gone.

Christmas was great...... we went to our daughters for dinner and came back stuffed to overflowing........ Boxing Day they all came to us along with no.3 son and his partner and little girl and our latest grand-daughter and her mum.

Hubby is now having counselling with Macmillan but it doesnt seem to be helping much...could be the time of year as we have not long had the anniversary of his brothers passing.

Its also been confirmed from x-rays and a scan that our brother-in-law has a cancerous tumar on his lung. He goes in on tues for his biopsy but have already told him 6 months without treatment.

Our sister-in-law is having her bowel investigated as she has been losing blood since sept last year.

The truth is I have'nt been in the right frame of mind to come on here.....well I've looked but have had days when its been so sad I just couldn't answer anyone as I was feeling so low.

I felt that I wouldn't be of any help to anyone in their times of desperate need of support...... I am so sorry for letting all of you down. I feel awful and ashamed after having such fantastic support from so many wonderful people.

So much has been going on within the family, phone calls, visits, hospitals.......... I guess that is where the time has gone.

(((((((XX)))))))

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Aunty,

    Please, please, please do not give yourself a hard time over anything! We've all loads of support from you and right now that is what you need.

    I'm dreadfully sorry to read of the crap you are having served up all thanks to shitty cancer.  You may recall I had a bad time before Xmas when I lost a mate and having 4 other friends and 2 relatives with this bastard disease really got to me, so I do know what you're going through.

    I'm picking you up off the floor and giving you a big hug because that's what my favourite Aunty deserves.

    Tight Lines

    Tim xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Just so you know I'm sitting here with a bloody wet face cos you lot made me well up big time and tissue shoved up my nostrils cos they are running like a tap :)

    THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU...

    So much love comes from you all, no-one outside our Mac family can understand it.

    THANK YOU (((((((((((((((((((((((((all of you)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    mmmm that's an attractive sight ....!

    So much loves come from you too mumsy that's why!

    Have another hug

    Little My xxx ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((mumsy)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    ps Imagine my wedding photos with you as mother of the bride hahaaa tissues up your nose etc cos lets face it, if you cry over this, what on earth must you be like at weddings? We'd have to wear wellies whether in a field or not with you there! xxx

     

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    HaHa...be warned..if we do manage to meet up, I will burst into tears at the sight of you.....just because you will be there in the flesh.

    Will have plenty of tissues at the ready

    mumsy xxxxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I'll have my wellies and umbrella ready!

    xxxxx