dad will be 80 in sept/ he and mum will have been married 60 years in dec. he had bowel cancer 7 years ago and was clear till end of 2008/ has spread to prostrate / legs / just had bloods done last week to see what is gonig on now/ he has deteriated rapidally over last few months. things seem to get worse by the week. dont know what to expect next.
Hi Suzanne, so sorry to hear about your dad. Unfortunately I cannot offer any advice regarding his cancer, but would be willing to have a chat with you anytime. Please feel free to send me a message if you want to talk. Best wishes to you and your family, Christine xx
christine thanks for replying. would love to chat, I would like to talk to anyone with understanding of the big C
I am not much good with computers in fact a complete novice,so you will have to excuse me if i am not very g ood I dad not good today, his very swollen legs have started to weep, nurse concerned, going to speak to doctor .
Dad has been poorly this week and the cancer has been diagnosed in kidneys now. he is failing fasy now, and i do not know how long he is going to be with us now. he is very weak and tired sleeping all the time, not eating or drinking much,had pain releif increased,may be this will help. Nobody seems to tell us how long this will on for, i hate seeing him suffer like this it seems so unfair.We dont let our animals suffer as much as this.
