Hello my lovelies..................The mad Kezzerbird here asking for some advice.
I am still in steady remission and life is fairly good, once again I have hair on my head (it was long, thick and straight before cancer) it is short, thick and wavy come curly now! and I have some meat on my old bones again. I still have my scar going from my ribs to my boots and Henry my stoma, the only thing that cancer seems to have distroyed in my life is the fact that my long term partner can't even hold me anymore, this saddens me greatly and he avoids having to talk to me about it and he doesn't really have any friends either, he drinks alot and smokes like a train.
We both know that there is 50% chance my cancer may return but there is also a 50% that it won't but what ever happends in the future we should and could be having a wonderful life together. I have always been a tuff old bird, I love life and laughter, the cancer hasn't beaten me but the need to be held is more important now than it ever was by my man. Any advice guys.....................love and hugs to those that want them................love Carol
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Sending you big gentle hugs, but I know they are not the same.
I'm glad you are back on the mend, we love good news. Know what you mean about the chance of a reutrn. I've decided that instead of worrying all the time about if/when the cancer will return I just accept that yes! it will come back one day (85% chance), but in the meantime I'll just get on with my life as far as possible and start doing all those things I always meant to do. Surprisingly I'm much more relaxed about it all now and don't spend all my time worrying. Just a thought.
