What a scare we had last week, my Bobbie ended up back in hospital, was so unwell, I felt hopeless yet again that you have no control. One day good news, then the next in hospital. Sat in A & E for an hour before being seen, do not know what this piece of paper they call a passport is. They say it is supposed to get you seen quicker because of being on chemo, but does not mean a thing. I don't mean to moan because I know there are many people in a&e needing to be seen, but when its your loved one sitting there shaking, burning up and just feels like collapsing, you go into fight mode [well I do]. There is my adorable man who used to be the strong one protecting me and now the roles have reversed. It was as if it were one of my children sitting there so helpless, you just want them to sort it out as quickly as possible. Well eventually things did get sorted and he was diagnosed with a viral infection but is now back on the mend and home. So lovely to have my darling Bobbie back and in our warm and loving enviroment. His eyes are getting their sparkle back again and he is laughing and making everyone around him laugh, just like he always used to. He says I have to chill and relax and not let things wind me up so much, thats my Bobbie so laid back, wish I could be. In the last 6mnths feel like I have aged 10yrs and look like I have also, never mind as long as I have My Darling Bobbie by my side thats all that matters to me.
Love him so much.
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its always a pain, but the only way you get seen sooner is if you arrive by ambulance, (been there done that lol) but i was told by my mac nurses to always phone the cancer unit first or cancer ward after hours before anyone else. they will help, i was told to contact them even before my own g.p.
glad hes home and on the mend, good luck with the rest of the treatment. liz x
Keep on smiling and fighting for your beloved Bobbie, you seem so good together. It is indeed strange how we fight so hard for our loved ones. Nothing and no-one is going to harm them whilst we have any say in the matter. It is just so unfair when these things are no longer in our control but we have to deal with it. He is still your wonderful Bobbie and you are still his gorgeous Duchess. To have, to hold and to love. Take care of yourself too. Love Paticia x x
