My Mum had a Whipple procedure for pancreatic cancer recently and has just been told she has to have chemo as a preventive measure - sessions will be two weeks apart.
I live 4-5hrs away (depending on trains) so would ideally need to visit for blocks of time rather than the odd day and need to plan my visits (to the extent possible).
What is the point in a post-surgery chemo cycle that people have found is the most helpful to have an extra pair of hands or some company around? During/immediately after a session or a few days later when you feel a bit more like doing stuff?
I am assuming the side effects are horrid at the start of a cycle then ease off, but if people have found different patterns that is helpful to know.
Thanks
Hi Purple Dragon and welcome to the community. I am not from this group but have had my fair share of chemo. A different chemo to your Mum, but in general the side effects are similar for many. In my case, I was fine on the day of treatment but it was usually the day after I felt a bit lousy and tired, needing a nap. I then picked up on the following days. It can be a long day in the chair, so Mum needs to wear loose and comfortable clothing. Plenty of drinks and snacks and something to keep her occupied such as a book, tablet etc. Mum will probably be given anti sickness pills. These need to be taken as prescribed to help prevent nausea. At home she needs to drink plenty of water to help stop dehydration. Some people recommend a touch of lemon barley water to help get things down. I hope all goes well. Best wishes.
My bro 75 had the Whipple op Sept and by 5/12 begun his first Chemo. I lived 96 miles away and attended and drove him to hospital and collected him. He coped well on ambrax* chemo. He was usually two days of just extreme fatigue and then up on strong legs after that. He took Creon 4/5 tablets too with each meal. In all his 6 months of sessions he had little symptoms from chemo and recovered after two days. On only ONE session he had suddenly had a very raised temperature within few hours, necessitating a return to hospital, to be kept in for few days for observations.
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