My husband attended hospital for a food tube fitting on Monday this week. He was also scheduled for Rt and chemo. He was left and forgotten about all day, at one point for three hours having been put in a waiting room, he emerged to use the toilet and was told there had been a ‘wild goose chase’ trying to locate him. Perhaps if the staff spoke to each other? He finally got the tube fitted at 3 oclock and was admitted to a ward for an overnight stay. In the meantime I had been on the phone for over an hour, spoke to nine different people, no one knew where he was. I was told by the Staff Nurse on the ward he was supposed to be on three times that he wasn’t there. Given lots of numbers with no reply and tearing my hair out. MacMillan nurse called me back in response to a message I left at the start of my hunt and guess what? He was on the ward the Staff Nurse told me three times that he wasn’t. Every request he was offered on the ward was forgotten about or ignored. He was very upset at how the day went and looked forward to coming home.
Fast forward to last night. He started with excruciating pain in his chest and abdomen and due to a previous heart attack, I dialled 999. The paramedics came, gave him some pain meds intravenously and took him off to the general hospital some 20 miles away. After vomiting copiously all the way he arrived at the hospital to be told there were no beds available. Having arrived at 10 pm he spent the night in the ambulance, in the car park, until 6.20 this morning when they found him a bed on a ward. So he has a bed but still not been assessed by a doctor.
He is scheduled RT about 30 miles away from where he is atm but I have no direct access to inform anyone, Have left a message on MacMillan Nurses line. I’m distraught to experience the sad state of the NHS first hand. Heaven help us all.
Hi Dani, I actually told the Scarborough contact that I would remove him to take to Hull but he is connected to lots of drips of various things so it would be tricky in practice. Of course I got the ‘If anything happens to him on route we won’t be responsible…. Speil so I left it. The pain was PEG related, thank goodness. It was apparently leaking and filling his stomach with air and became infected. Any way if you see my reply to Mel above, we have, I hope, turned a corner and might actually get back on track tomorrow. Thanks again for your support, it has been a huge comfort to get an informed opinion. Onwards and upwards.
Hello Lynda, just seen your post to Dani, with my husband having a PEG himself,I am trying to work out what can cause a leak, I know there can be chances of infection at the insertion area or it can fall out, but wasn't aware of it leaking and filling stomach with air. Goodness,poor bloke ,no wonder he's in pain. Fingers crossed he can concentrate now on his treatment x
Hi Mel, no we were told about infection risk or fallout but not that it might spring a leak. I guess it just wasn’t fitted as it should have been so after 24 hours it was causing him no end of problems. We have decided to look forward now and just hope this particular issue has finally been sorted. Thanks again for your help x
We have decided to look forward now and just hope this particular issue has finally been sorted
Don’t despair Lynda
Not having a PEG is not that important. I wasn’t offered one and I managed perfectly well with a nasogastric tube which took minutes to place when I needed it.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Lynda So sorry to hear this I’ve been out and about glad he seems sorted. Yes sometimes the nhs is disjointed but as Scarborough this time seems to have been incompetent as well.
I managed fine with a ng tube if he needs one
hugs Hazel xx
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
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Hello again Hazel. I didn’t start this story with a view to trashing the NHS which I realise is so under pressure at this time. As you say, rather it is the incompetence all the way through that has really floored me, along with a general failure of all the medical staff concerned to pass on information at a time when someone definitely feels their life is under threat. We have to put it behind us and get on with what lies ahead but it has definitely taken its toll on us both. Thanks for the vote of confidence for the ng option, I guess we will take what we are given. Many thanks for your input.
Hi Lynda
the ng tube was both Dani and mines lifesaver. We’re here to help you. Once treatment starts the radiotherapy teams will be your point of contact and your faith will be restored in the NHS. Hugs
Hazel xx
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
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