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Gullet (oesophagus) cancer

A support group for anyone affected by gullet cancer (also known as oesophageal cancer) to come together, share experiences and ask questions.

Mums just been diagnosed

Aclarke1981
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Hi, I'm new to the group. My mum 74 has been diagnosed with esophageal cancer and secondary in lungs she wont find out what stage it is as shes had enough tests and I don't blame her. Originally went into hospital after a stroke then 4 weeks later found the tumour.  It's been a very emotional rollercoaster,  just when we thought ok she will improve and get better after the stroke were hit with the other bombshell.  Finally saw her today as she was discharged but as a palliative care patient.  

Mums struggling to swallow shes has a stent fitted but has  really weak swallowing . She was tube fed in hospital but couldn't have a peg fitted because of the tumor.

She didn't even manage have a glass of milk today .  

I'm just here to see what others are going through so I know were not alone.  I can't push my mum to drink more but I'd like her to gain some strength , I know it's not my call it's just so difficult. I thought she'd be desperate to drink something after being nil by mouth for a month , but I suppose its learning to use those muscles again. 

I dont think my mum has long with us I just worry she'll end up feeling pain or being so weak.   

I'm quite strong but feeling so broken right now more so for my mum.  

SCANDSA
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Hi ,

Welcome to the group , you are certainly not alone and i am sure you will find comfort and support from here . I am so sorry to read about your mum. The main thing is to try and stay strong as a family unit and give as much support to your Mum as possible. 

All the very best

R