I have an appointment in a week's time to get biopsy results and find out what happens next as far as a treatment plan is concerned. I told my employer a week before Christmas that I had been recalled following a routine mammogram and after that appointment told them about having had biopsies done and I'm waiting for hospital appointment. I have been signed off work until the end of January as I'm really not coping well with the wait for results etc. I had hoped my employer would give me space as I said I'd let them know when I myself know more but first day back at work for them after the Christmas break and they've already phoned and text me, asking what's happening. I don't feel I need to tell them any more than I have already, especially as my GP has signed me off work. This added pressure from my employer isn't helping in the slightest. If it was out of genuine concern I could almost accept it but I truly feel it is only because I know they are short staffed and want me to say ill be back at work soon. As if this waiting for results isn't stressful enough.
You are so right, it is stressful enough dealing with a diagnosis without having to be dealing with pressure from work. You do have rights as an employee which your employer might not be aware of.
Here's a link on your rights which is worth having a read and if necessary, provide the details to your employer. They should 'back off' and give you the space you need to deal with it all when they realise what their responsibilities to you are!
I do hope the results come back with the best possible outcome when you get your results.
Kindest Wishes, Lesley
