Practical issues

Share experiences and advice on practical issues when living with cancer, such as money, work, benefits, transport, food and drink, organising support at home, or getting specialist equipment.

ESA benefit

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My husband was diagnosed a few weeks ago with incurable cancer. Macmillan have been great advising on financial support as we are both self employed and have 3 young children. I was advised to claim ESA for myself as I was too distressed to work, I claimed this after 3 weeks of not working and got a 4 week sick line from my gp on 18th May for  “acute stress” got a call today to say I have to go for an assessment. I’m so anxious and angry at the thought of somebody judging how upset I am, if I cry enough or if I manage to hold it together am I not upset enough? I worked in a well paid government job for over 20 years, paying thousands in national insurance contributions over that time before setting up my business and feel insulted at how I’m being treated now.

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Hi 0802bernies welcome to the forum and so sorry that this is happening for you and your hubby you don't need any extra pressure at this time.

Could Macmillan advise you about this as well?

I agree with you that it must feel very insulting and maybe MacMillan could advise on any options if any, available to you re this.

Good luck with it all and please let us know how you get on as we will be thinking of you.

Sending some huge big hugs for now. xxxxx

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Hello I too am having problems with claiming esa for my husband ,he had major surgery 2 weeks ago having a full laryngectomy , starting the claim for esa as been a joke right from the start after failing to receive forms via email to then receiving them through the post only to ring the benefit people up constantly to be put on hold for 30 minutes at a time to be then told we have no record of your husbands claim , yes I know that because I'm trying to arrange an assessment }!!!!!!! I just keep being pushed from one department to the next and it's bad enough dealing with cancer let alone trying to claim some sort of help it's very very frustrating. I don't know what to do anymore